What Does Your Look Reveal About You?

After giving us her first impressions, Wechsler answers French's specific questions.

AF: I'm moving into a leadership role at my law firm, but I'm the youngest person on staff. How can I come across as professional without looking overdone?
AW: To be taken seriously at the office, it's essential to have good posture, hold your head up, and make eye contact. This will project confidence. And no matter how old you are, downplay the flirtiness at work — with both body language and makeup.

AF: But I've been wearing makeup since I was 16 — I'm so used to it.
AW: You don't have to give it up; just use less of it — especially the thick liner on your upper eyelids.

AF: I can definitely tone it down for work. What else should I be doing?
AW: I love to see women comfortable with their natural skin tone. Do you always want to look tan?

AF: I do self-tan because when I'm pale, I think my light hair looks washed out. I worked at a tanning salon when I was in my teens and got addicted. I know it's counterintuitive, but I feel healthier and more in shape when I'm tan!
AW: You shouldn't have to have a tan for that — think of Nicole Kidman. Would you ever let your hair go darker?

AF: Even though I have always felt that blonde better expresses who I am, about a year ago my hair was almost brown, and I was less tan. At the time I kept saying, "I need highlights; I need to get sunnier!" But when I look at photos now, I think it looked really good. Maybe I'll give it another try.