Can You Help Me Understand Boobs?

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Boobs are an enigma to me.

Am I attracted to girls

with big boobs or small boobs?

I think the majority of

guys work the way my friend Bryan works:

We were walking down

Broadway together enjoying pleasant conversation. After finishing a long story, I turned to Bryan to look at

him but he was gone. I had walked

several feet after losing him. I

turned around to see him half a block behind me, staring at a storefront

display, entranced. He beckoned

me:

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"Rich! Rich! You have to come see this! Look how big the boobs are on this

mannequin!"

To make matters worse, it

happened to be a headless mannequin—not even a face to give it any personality.


So a lot of guys are happy

with a pair of nice floating boobs attached to nothing. Perhaps they are so taken by boobs that

when they look at a girl, the rest of her disappear.

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I'm finally coming

around. Big boobs don't strike

fear in me the way they once did. I just used to think of it simply: if they are bigger, there's more to satisfy, so it might be more

difficult to make her happy.

If that's the case then

bra sizes are like the levels from the minors to the majors in baseball:

Size

A = A Farm Team

Size B = AA Farm Team

Size C = AAA Farm Team

Size D = Major League Team

Do the boobs get more

difficult to satisfy, just like the pitching gets tougher to hit as you move up

through the minors and into the majors? Big boobs make it even more overwhelming: I am trying to satisfy this girl, and

she has big boobs.

I figured if I educated

myself on boobs, maybe they wouldn't be so intimidating. I learned that that first number—you

know, the "34" or whatever—is actually not just the measurement of the actual

boobs (I used to think that number maybe referred to the volume of the boobs or

something—like that cone volume formula we learned in math: cone volume =1/3 x pi x radius2 x

height).


I learned that there is an

E that is the same as DD and an F that is the same as DDD—kind of like E Flat

(honestly, no pun intended) is the same as D sharp, for all you music lovers

out there. I learned that bra

sizes go all the way up to L! I finally learned how to calculate bra size:

Measure frame (the area

under the boobs all the way around—I didn't even know this was involved)

Measure around chest—bust

(now this I knew was

involved)

Cup Size = Bust Size –

Frame Size

At least it's simpler than

that cone volume formula.

So, where does this leave

us? Basically, I'm still

confused. Add into the equation

these new bras that are out there that never were around when I was

younger. These pushup, or

wonderbras are just not fair. They

make every girl's boobs look amazing. So what happens if I'm lucky enough to bring a girl home, and brave

enough to take her bra off? They

suddenly don't look like they once did! Wonderbras are no different than the fine print on cell phone contracts:

"If you try to end this

contract early, we'll charge you $250!"

It's a tough world out

there. But us guys will always be

intrigued by boobs because we just don't get understand them. In that sense, they are a miracle.

They are especially

effective on us when we see just the cleavage and top of them. It drives us crazy. That amazing line that cleavage creates

that disappears in shadow into a shirt makes every guy's head spin. Effectively advertised boobs show just

enough to get a guy's attention and get his head spinning. I've always been put off when they seem

to be hanging out too much: wardrobe malfunction.

So keep us guessing with

boobs. It will keep us wanting

more, and wanting to figure it all out.

And, in all honesty, boob

size is not a priority for me. I

just look for a great girl—and if she happens to have big boobs, it's an added

bonus.

What are your thoughts?

Do you feel pressure to

have perfect boobs? Have you ever used your boobs to get attention? Do you ever get stuck with guys who

care too much about your boobs and not enough about the rest of you? Do you find that most guys are just

clueless about boobs like me?