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Redemption for Rape Victims in the Military (And Everywhere)
    Last night Congress passed a whole slew of changes to the military policies concerning cases of sexual assault and rape.

Q & A: What Do Women Want?
    What do women really want in bed? A revealing new website, The Desire Project, seeks to answer that eternal question.

8 Types of Guys That Won't Commit

Can Bad Sex Be Improved?
    Can you take steps to improve bad sex? Our male dating blogger thinks so.

How To Keep A Guy's Attention
    Our male dating blogger gives you some useful tips on how to keep a guy's attention

Is Sexting A Gateway To Cheating?
    Is sexting as harmful to a relationship as cheating?

Why Your Boyfriend Can't Orgasm
    I wonder if sex is bad for a woman if the guy doesn't orgasm. I'll be completely candid here: I don't orgasm often during oral sex or intercourse. What is the cause of this phenomenon? I'm not sure, but I have a few theories about my affliction...

Book Review: "Got Milf - The Modern Mom's Guide To Feeling Fabulous, Looking Great, and Rocking a Minivan" by Sarah Maizes

Pros and Cons of Sowing Your Wild Oats
    My friend recently broke up and now claims he can't wait to "sew his wild oats". I'm wondering how that experience will be as rewarding as growing close to someone and falling in love. So, I weighed the pros and cons.

4 Things I'm Insecure About In Bed
    I've said many times I wish I could be a "dude" about sex and think "Wow, I'm nailing this chick." Unfortunately, I have more thoughts racing through my head and most of these thoughts have to do with what's going to go wrong. He

5 Reasons For Spring Fever
    Spring has arrived, and according to a recent survey about weather and sex, 67% of respondents said they become more interested in sex when the weather starts getting warmer.

How To Get Revenge on Your Significant Other
    Dating makes us vengeful. When I was dating my last girlfriend, I got spiteful at times. When she forgot to text me when she got home, after being out, I vowed to "forget" to tell her when I got home after going out. When she'd forget

Are Strip Clubs Really That Bad?
    Which is more threatening: knowing your boyfriend is at a strip club or out with an ex-girlfriend?

OKCupid's Best Questions For a First Date
    I recently stumbled upon an interesting graphic in Newsweek highlighting a study from the dating site OKCupid, suggesting great questions for a first date. The questions showed a high percentage of compatible people agreeing, along with follow up que

Why Men Prefer Innocent Girls to Bad Girls
    The other day some guys and I were discussing the "innocent" versus the "bad girl". Across the board, the guys agreed they prefer an innocent woman over a "bad girl". sometimes we go for the opposite of what we have in t

4 Ways Porn Is Ruining My Love Life
    Rich discusses an article that argues that the influx of internet porn is causing men to lose their libidos and expect outlandish behavior in bed. A Place for Cheaters to Meet
    My editor sent me a fascinating story about the business behind the site Ashley Madison. For those of you who are not familiar with the site, its mission is to provide people seeking affairs the environment to pursue the fantasy.

How Do You Compare to Their Ex?
    Do most people want full transparency with their significant other regarding exes? Transparency is soothing, but it also sets a bar. But knowing too much about your partner's ex can create a range of things to think about that cause anxiety.

9 Ways to Rehabilitate a Cheater
    A cheater can be rehabilitated, but a number of the following things must happen to spark the change.

Annoying Girlfriend Behavior: Talking Over the TV
    Sometimes a successful relationship is about how little you annoy each other as much as how attracted you are to one another.

What His Flowers Really Mean
    As Valentine's Day approaches, find out what your guy is trying to say with that beautiful bouquet.

Daters Are Masochists
    Dating is a brutal experience. We are judged, dragged through the mud, and hurt in a quest for love (something that many of us don't even know how to get or how it feels). Dating is full of masochists.

6 Reasons People Join Dating Sites

7 Assumptions We Make in Dating
    The conclusions I seemingly "magically" come to get me every time.

7 Ways to Create the Perfect Date
    My two favorite dates occurred in high school, and they gave me insight in to what makes a good date.

6 Reasons To Avoid Casual Sex: A Guy's Perspective
    Of course, I am afflicted with intimacy issues, but I think casual sex isn't worth the reward.

10 Reasons He Didn't Get It Up
    I've done some soul searching and have come up with many reasons (excuses) for system failure:

A Guy Explains What's Up with Man Crushes
    I was thinking about how strange man-crushes are.

Would You Make Out With a Jerk (Like Me)?
    Sometimes things work out no matter how much I try to ruin them.

Forbidden Fruit: How to Deal When Your Crush Is Taken
    It's frustrating when you're into someone who has a boyfriend or girlfriend, even though it's obvious that you're attracted to one another. Rich Santos explains how to attract them anyway by becoming forbidden fruit.

Should You Ever Get Back Together with an Ex? Pros & Cons
    Making a decision is challenging because it feels like you're damned if you do, damned if you don't.

The 7 Most Frustrating Things About Dating
    Today, I got another marriage proposal from a girl friend (now I've got two "let's get married when we are older if neither of us is married by then" friends). It's a result of the frustration and difficulty of dating.

7 Lame Sex Moves He Pulls in Bed
    I don't have the benefit of studio direction and multiple takes. So, the poor girl is just stuck with my first take, and all my bad moves.

7 Physically Painful Things About Dating

6 Looks That Make Men Want to Take You to Bed
    Most of the time, women dress for other women. Still, there are certain looks and styles that get my attention, or even arouse me whether a woman intends it or not.

Old Lady Perfume & Snorting: Sonic and Olfactory Deal Breakers
    As if looking good wasn't tough, there are other senses we're blessed with that help figure out attraction.

A Guy's Perspective on Sugar Daddies (& Mamas)

Is It Still "Good Sex" if You Don't Have an Orgasm?
    A real guy confesses that he feels he's failed a woman if he can't bring her the big bang.

Sex Etiquette: 9 Dos and Don'ts in Bed
    A real guy explains what he wants, and doesn't want, you to do in bed.

How Many Dates Do You Go on Before You Consider Sex?

9 Dating Dealbreakers to Watch Out For

Would You Stay with a Great Guy if the Sex Was Bad?

An Honest Guy, a Jerk, or Both?

10 Signs He's Only in It for the Sex

6 Reasons Guys Think You're "Easy"

Nine Signs He's Cheating

5 Questions About Sex

7 Ways He Is Using You
    I got an "F" in Advanced Biology my senior year of high school, but the class left me with memorable lessons. One lesson relevant in the dating discussion is the idea of symbiotic and parasitic relationships.

Would You Have a Threesome?

9 Reasons It's Tough to Be Friends with a Crush
    Most guy-girl friend duos were once complicated because one person had a crush on the other person. In fact, many of my friendships with women (before I started working) developed because I was attracted to them.

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