Mickey I want to have an art show titled I FIND MYSELF SO INTERESTING.
All the pieces will have titles like:
ISN'T THIS SUCH AN INTERESTING DETAIL ABOUT MYSELF?
I THINK I'VE CAPTURED MY SARDONIC APPROACH TO MY OWN LIFE PRETTY ACCURATELY IN THIS ONE
THIS ONE IS ABOUT MY TORTURED AND UNSUSTAINABLE INNER LIFE
ANOTHER CONFUSING REFERENCE TO MY CHILDHOOD!
HOPE THIS PIECE MAKES YOU SCARED TO TALK TO ME BECAUSE THAT'S MY FAVORITE INTERPERSONAL DYNAMIC
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I'M NOT BRAVE ENOUGH TO EXPOSE MYSELF IN A NON-ART SETTING
HA-HA! I JUST NEVER STOP BEING INTERESTING
I don't even care if there's wine and cheese at the opening. I just want complete control of how I'm interpreted as an artist and human person, and to leave no room for anyone to project anything of their own on to me.
But I'd be really surprised if there wasn't cheese at the opening.
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I arrived at Mickey's apartment crying and he asked me what was wrong. I threw myself onto the floor in front of him and he asked if Project Runway had made me cry.
I said that it had and he asked who was kicked off and I said, "Nobody, the judges let them all stay" and faintly wept or pretended to weep, and Mickey told me I was crazy.
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In the movie version of my life, there should be a group of confident-looking people standing in front of my work saying, "Seminal," to each other over and over.
And they should definitely include that word a few times in the trailer for that movie, so people know what to expect.
And it would be good if they could cast someone unseemly to play the role of me because then I would have someone tragic to compare myself to for the rest of my life.
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I'M TERRIFIED THAT DEEP DOWN INSIDE I'M NOT THAT INTERESTING AND I'M TERRIFIED THAT EVERYONE ALREADY KNOWS
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I am willing myself to have a manic episode just so I can get out of bed at some point today.
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I AM SURE THAT ONE DAY I WILL BE A GREAT ARTIST
I'LL BE SO SUCCESSFUL THAT YOU'LL BE AFRAID TO TALK TO ME
AND I'LL STILL BE AFRAID TO TALK TO YOU, TOO
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Mickey and I went on a hike to look for mushrooms at Huckleberry Preserve. Well, not really looking. Our friend warned us there would not be any mushrooms there, but we hadn't asked about mushrooms. We went to Huckleberry Preserve anyway, not caring one way or the other about whether there would be mushrooms. We didn't see any mushrooms. It wasn't a very close friend.
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YOU WEREN'T WRONG WHEN YOU SAID I WOULD GIVE UP ON THE WORLDBEFORE IT GAVE UP ON ME
I GUESS I JUST THOUGHT I WOULD BE THE FIRST TO KNOW IF I HAD GIVEN UP ON THE WORLD
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I have a new concept for a show. It will be called BEST JUST LEAVE HER ALONE.
I'll hire a woman to perform in the gallery. She will be required to wander around the space, never talking, never making eye contact with anyone. I'll instruct everyone not to talk to her.
I will invite all her friends and loved ones to the show. I will invite her ex-boyfriends and people she was mean to in high school and the neighbor kid who she used to babysit who is now in college. I'll invite her ex–best friend who she hasn't talked to in eight years. I'll find all these people on Facebook. I'll hire them if I have to. I'll instruct them not to talk to the performer under any circumstances.
I'll leave a comment book at the front of the gallery, and there will be a big sign over it that says: PLEASE WRITE ANYTHING YOU WISH. But I will have informed everyone ahead of time that the only thing they're permitted to write is: LOOKS LIKE YOU'RE DOING WELL and their own name.
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ART THAT REFERS TO ITSELF AS "ART" IS LOWBROW, BUT CALLING THAT SAME ART "SEMINAL" AND EATING CHEESE AROUND IT MAKES IT HIGHBROW, BUT ACKNOWLEDGING THE CHEESE IS LOWBROW, BUT CASUALLY EXPECTING CHEESE IS HIGHBROW, BUT FINDING AND PURCHASING THE SAME CHEESE FROM THE GROCERY STORE AT A LATER DATE FOR PRIVATE CONSUMPTION IS LOWBROW, BUT BUYING SOME OTHER CHEESE IS HIGHBROW, BUT SERVING IT TO ANYONE WHO DOESN'T CONSIDER THEMSELVES AN ARTIST IS LOWBROW, BUT SO IS CONSIDERING ONESELF AN ARTIST.
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I can't tell if I'm making the choice to be a total wreck in every avenue of my life or if there is some exterior force that's keeping me drugged and asleep in some Matrix-like existence (full disclosure: haven't seen the movie) and the drugs aren't set to the correct levels but no one in charge is paying attention and this is all a horrible, hallucinatory nightmare that is happening to me through absolutely no fault of my own.
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My favorite part of life is that it feels like a long dramatic interpretation of "Push" by Matchbox Twenty.
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Sometimes I will put a not-very-sad song on and sing it while practicing to cry and stop crying on command. Sometimes I videotape myself doing this. At first I thought it was art, but now I think maybe it's something else.
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I showed Courtney my Rob Thomas drawing and she said it made her sad, which made me feel like she could see into my soul, in a bad way.
It made me want to do a better job covering up my soul and making elaborate excuses for the parts that could still be seen.
But if Rob Thomas's face can't cover up a sad soul then I'm all out of ideas.
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I DON'T LIKE ART UNLESS THE ARTIST HAS ADMITTED FAILURE
I DON'T LIKE ARTISTS UNLESS THEY HATE THEMSELVES
ALSO I HATE MURALS
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I dreamt I saw Mickey after several years of not seeing him. He had decided to become "Hispanic" for some reason relating to fashion. He looked like a different person, but I hugged him and felt a strong, familiar sadness.
There was so much I wanted to say to him, but our conversation was minimal and strained because he had forgotten how to speak English. "You didn't used to be Hispanic," I said."Well," Mickey said, "you didn't used to be [unintelligible Spanish word[s]]."
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I'm going to call my art show MICKEY, and on opening night when Mickey notices that the work in the show has little to do with him and confronts me about it, I'll pretend I'm getting a phone call and the pretend phone call won't go well and I'll start crying loudly and ask Mickey if he'll drive me to the nearest bus stop and, I don't know, maybe I'll find purpose and meaning at the bus stop.
Chelsea Martin is the author of Even Though I Don't Miss You (Short Flight/Long Drive, 2013), among other books. Her novella Mickey will be published in July 2016 by Curbside Splendor Publishing. More at jerkethics.com.
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