One Tree Hill's Hilarie Burton Morgan Says It’s Relieving to Embrace Her "Salty" Hair

Here's why she let her gray hair grow.

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Distinguished and elegant, the color gray is everything at once. With this being said, I’m all about gray hair. When my silver strands start to come in, I assume it will be weird to no longer think of myself as the brunette I once was. But, I have no patience for consistent coloring sessions... and I’ll have had Hilarie Burton Morgan's wisdom to pave the way.

While One Tree Hill fans probably know the 41-year-old actress as a blonde, Burton Morgan is rocking the gray these days. And there's plenty of meaning behind her decision to keep things natural. During a Saturday, October 7 appearance on The View, she discussed her decision to "grow it all out" after cohost Joy Behar called her hair "beautiful."

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"It's a weird thing when you were a teen drama actress, and the expectation to be 17 forever is out there," she said. "I didn't necessarily like my younger years. I dealt with some dark stuff. So this idea that you can level up and get to the place where you're the salty one in the room was exciting to me."

Burton Morgan went on to name some of her gray-haired heroes, including Bea Arthur, Ruth Gordon, and Betty White. "That's who I wanted to be,” she said. “So going gray early was a relief."

In a separate essay previously published, Burton Morgan noted that she first died her hair in middle school. Later, she was told she needed to bleach her hair to "look like a star,” causing a 2004 mullet moment after her locks fell out in chunks. After years spent hating the "costumed" feeling of hair dye and seeing her husband, Jeffrey Dean Morgan, embraced for his silver strands, she decided to give it a try herself.

"As my silver grew in, I liked how I looked-perhaps for the first time," she wrote. "I liked what it did to my eyes and skin tone." Of course, the soon-to-be-released Grimoire Girl author isn't the only one who likes the look.

In a September 2023 Instagram post, Burton Morgan shared a hair update and set of photos, noting that her colorist Amanda Guido mixed some ice blonde in with her grey. "Yes ma'am. Daddy like," commented her husband, adding a row of heart emojis and a sweet "always" sign-off.

In another comment, a fan shared that Burton Morgan inspired her own hair transformation. "Stopped coloring my roots because if HBM can rock it, so can I! (Even if I'm only 30!)" they wrote. May Hilarie’s passion for gray inspire us all.

Sophia Vilensky
Freelance Writer

Sophia Vilensky is a Freelance Beauty Writer at Marie Claire with a beauty, wellness, and entertainment journalism portfolio that includes contributions to Byrdie, Bravo, Teen Vogue, and Us Weekly. Growing up in a family of beauticians—and through her own personal studies—she developed an in-depth understanding of aesthetics, cosmetic product formulation, and beauty treatment development and has also held roles as a senior copywriter, content strategist, and proofreader for top beauty and wellness brands. Even so, you'd be hard pressed to find her with her hair and makeup actually done. Sophia is based in Minneapolis and is a 2019 graduate of the University of Minnesota, where she majored in English and minored in cinema studies. During her time at the university, she was the Arts & Entertainment Editor for the Minnesota Daily, earning the 2019 Editor of the Year award for her work. She connected deeply with the Twin Cities arts scene, collaborating with leading beauty professionals, designers, and artists. Graduating Summa Cum Laude, her thesis—a close-reading of Vanderpump Rules—was featured on NPR. When not immersed in writing or testing new products, Sophia enjoys watching reality TV, reading, and exploring the newest woo-woo wellness trends. Keep up with her on Instagram @sophiavilensky.