The Best Dinner Party Outfits Have One Thing in Common

Welcome to cozy dinner party season—we finally made it. Whether you’re hosting or attending as a guest, there is a sweet spot between comfortable and chic when dressing for events at home. There are fewer variables to consider than when stepping out to a restaurant or bar: the environment is controlled, the wine and gossip are flowing without interruption, and there is usually a comfy couch to sink into for an after-dinner cocktail.

I firmly believe the perfect dinner party outfit starts with one super-cozy component. Whether that’s a big sweater, a pair of luxe leggings, or a pajama-like piece such as a silk slip dress, add one chic element to the mix. That could be a statement tunic, an oversized blazer, or a pair of fancy pants.

For the ultimate houseguest hack, invest in a pair of “travel slippers” reserved solely for indoor use. Offer to change into them so you’re not left awkwardly barefoot, while also providing some relief to an anxious host who is dreading having the “shoes off” conversation. A pair of these satin slippers is easy to toss into a larger bag or leave in the car, and the pop of color adds a fun touch to any outfit, no matter what shoes you planned to wear on the way to dinner.

Footwear aside, let’s get into the foolproof outfit combinations. Each comes with an outdoor shoe suggestion, but would look just as good with the slipper hack.

Leggings + an Elaborate Tunic

I swear by these super-thick Alaïa velour leggings, which I coveted for years before finally finding a pair secondhand at a great price. While the velvety sheen might not be for everyone, I do think a pair of luxe, substantial leggings will serve any closet well. They’re a sexy alternative to trousers without feeling too casual or sporty, and can be worn with tops both short and long.

I love this Wales Bonner tunic with mirrored paillettes for something that feels put together but is almost as comfortable as the leggings. I slid on a pair of low-heeled mules, and a gathering at someone’s home usually requires no bag—unless it’s a shopper holding a bottle of wine.

Slip Dress + a Boyish Blazer

A slip dress that feels almost pajama-esque is a refined and completely comfortable option if the crowd you’re meeting is a little more formal. I love this black-and-white one from Tory Burch, which I’ve had for years. The contrasting details make it far more interesting than a simple black version.

An oversized blazer—like this reliable Dries Van Noten one—in a fall fabric like Glen plaid or Prince of Wales check doubles as a light coat that works both indoors and out, while counterbalancing the super-feminine dress. A loafer also helps ground the look, which can veer dressy pretty quickly.

Sweater + Lace Pants

By now, everyone should have a go-to cozy sweater in their closet. But does everyone have a pair of fancy pants to pair it with? You should. Grab a lace, sequin, or brocade pant, and you’ll find that this combination will be a go-to for far more than just the next dinner party.

This pair of Valentino lace pants has seen weddings, New Year’s gatherings, and even Fashion Week. They make this navy &Daughter sweater look like a considered choice, especially with a pop-of-color flat.