8 Things I Learned About Talking to People from These Painfully Awkward Celebrity Interviews

A famous-person lesson in normal-person life.

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I realize I have a much easier job than celebrities do. Because while I have to think of interesting questions to ask them in interviews, they have to deal with answering them. And, you know, *some* interviewers like to lob the same stupid, personal, and bizarre questions at them over and over again, day in and day out. 

As I am not a patient person but am trying to be a good one, I've started taking notes from Hollywood stars and their expert handling of awkward conversations. And what do you know? It works. Here, Lessons in How to Talk to People From Celebrities: Part One.

1. You don't have to be an asshole if someone doesn't know what they're talking about.

Sometimes, people say the wrong things or don't care to pay attention before talking to you. In this case, it's better to kindly remind them why they should do that in the future rather than be an asshole about it. Because that's what *classy* people do, but also, you'll feel better about yourself than if you barked at them instead.

2. When people make you uncomfortable, say nothing and keep smiling. They'll stop talking eventually.

Is this uncomfortable? Yup. Do you respect Tyra more after? Definitely.

3. Other times, you can (and should) totally stick to your guns—especially if they're out of line.

See: Mila Kunis.

4. People are just people, so cut 'em some slack.

Sometimes, you have to remember that the person you're talking to doesn't know what they're talking about either. Or if they do, they might not be saying it correctly—so, you know, it sounds like they don't. So remember to a) relax and b) take charge, if you need to. See: Mila Kunis (again).

5. You don't *have* to give people the dirt they're looking for. 

Often it can seem, especially for women, like "opening up" is how we bond. But personal dirt is just...not always relevant.

6. Don't let the people gunning for an argument fluster you. 

Thanks for the reminder, 2 Chainz.

7. You're not always going to vibe with the person you're speaking to. It's cool, move on. 

Not everyone is going to get your humor. 

7. You're not always going to vibe with the person you're speaking to. It's cool, move on. 

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Samantha Leal
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Samantha Leal is the Deputy Editor at Well+Good, where she spends most of her day thinking of new ideas across platforms, bringing on new writers, overseeing the day-to-day of the website, and working with the awesome team to produce the best stories and packages. Before W+G, she was the Senior Web Editor for Marie Claire and the Deputy Editor for Latina.com, with bylines all over the internet. Graduating from the Medill School of Journalism at Northwestern University with a minor in African history, she’s written everything from travel guides to political op-eds to wine explainers (currently enrolled in the WSET program) to celebrity profiles. Find her online pretty much everywhere @samanthajoleal.