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How Many Drinks Are Too Many?
A lot of you have advised me to lay off the liquor to increase my success with girls. I have to say that I basically agree with this sentiment. But is there a point where a bit of a buzz actually helps loosen me up.
By Rich Santos Published
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Recession Dating
To make do during trying financial times, I put together some recession dating ideas.
By Rich Santos Published
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5 Ways You Are Sabotaging Your Relationship
Features From body insecurities to bad timing, you can improve these relationship don'ts with our help.
By Hannah Geller Published
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The Best Way to Get Under a Guy's Skin Is...
How To Want to know the best way to get a guy's goat? I've talked to a bunch of my friends and done some reflection, and I've decided that the best way to bother us or get our attention is to flirt with a guy.
By Rich Santos Published
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Why Guys Love the "Thrill of the Chase"
I thought I would outgrow enjoying the thrill of the chase, but I can't get over it.
By Rich Santos Published
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Are Fights Ever Good for a Relationship?
Is fighting actually healthy for a relationship?
By Rich Santos Published
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What's Your Favorite Song to Make Out To?
I have programmed an entire list of songs to play in case I'm lucky enough to bring a lady home - it is entitled "Passout." I feel inclined to share - hopefully some of you can download these tunes and share your thoughts.
By Rich Santos Published
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6 Ways to Make It Easier for You to Dump Someone
How To Breaking up is a selfish act that is a necessary evil in life. But there are easier ways to do the whole process.
By Rich Santos Published
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When Are You Over Someone?
The industry standard for getting over someone is half the duration of the relationship. So, if I get out of a yearlong relationship in December, according to this rule, I should be over that person by June of the next year.
By Rich Santos Published
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Does Style Promote Confidence?
Next week I'm going to a dating auction. Before you slam me for giving up or paying for "services," you should know that all proceeds go to charity. For Facebookers in the NYC area search "bachelorette auction fundraiser"
By Rich Santos Published
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9 Attractive Qualities Women Look for in a Guy
Features My friends and I have spent many a long night brainstorming that magic formula of characteristics that drives the ladies wild. It is impossible to know just what the mixture is supposed to be, but is there one characteristic that can work alone?
By Rich Santos Published
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When Will I Be "Ready"?
How To The term ",ready", means that a person can function in a healthy long-term relationship. Usually, we say someone was ",ready", when he or she settles down. People may think they are ready at 20, but realize they have a long way to go at age 35.
By Rich Santos Published
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Why Do We Repeat Emotional Mistakes?
Part of human intelligence is learning from mistakes. Emotional pain is much more complicated than physical pain that you learn from and never repeat.
By Rich Santos Published
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Strange Bedfellows
A chance encounter between old lovers reveals the fleeting nature of connection.
By Peter Birkenhead Published
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Friends or Lovers?
After all this cluelessness, Ive finally discovered that it helps to become friends with someone before actually dating them. But there are different levels and types of attractions that exist between friends.
By Rich Santos Published
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Is Overthinking a Relationship Ever Good?
The reason I screw up so much is that I ignore my good instincts and follow my bad instincts. I need to figure out how to just follow the good ones.
By Rich Santos Published
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Four Little Things I Notice About Women
They say the "devil is in the details," but the other night, my friend and I were scanning the bar and noticing minor things about women.
By Rich Santos Published
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How Much of Your Past Do You Reveal?
Here are the types of boyfriends that I can deal with hearing about from a girlfriend...
By Rich Santos Published
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When History Affects a Relationship
Everyone brings baggage to a relationship. Some bring more than most.
By Carla Power Published
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Does The Perfect Girl Exist?
My perfect girl could be characterized as a "Tom-Princess". Here are five contradictions that exist in my imaginary ideal girl: 1. She is very put together, but she doesn't mind coming apart.
By Rich Santos Published
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The Green Penis
My boyfriend dyed his penis green for me.
By Marie Claire Published
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Do You Believe In Singles Events?
This past Friday I attended a singles party.It yielded no results for me, but it did help clear up some characteristics of places where I may have better luck meeting girls.
By Rich Santos Published
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Have You Ever Been Stalked?
I remember when "stalking" was unique to relationships. Here, I've laid out the levels of stalking from low-risk to get-the-hell-outta-there.
By Rich Santos Published
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What Goes On at a Bachelor Party?
Guys have a secret code stating they should not tell girls what happens at bachelor parties. But, I'm going to give you a glimpse of what goes on, and explain why I think bachelor parties are contrived.
By Rich Santos Published
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How Often Should I Do Something "Special"?
I think the "special" things should not be used to cheer up a girlfriend. When she's very low, she needs general support and to be brought along slowly.
By Rich Santos Published
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8 Ways I'm Like a Woman
Features 8 Ways I'm Like a Woman
By Rich Santos Published
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