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9 Great Places To Meet People (Other Than Bars)
Where to Meet Men - Places to Meet Men
By Rich Santos Published
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How Love Can Destroy A Friendship
Most of my "we'll get married to each another if we don't find anyone else by age XX" friends are off the market, but one still remains: Karen. She'd make a great wife because she's passionate and giving to her friends and family, she ...
By Rich Santos Published
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When Should You Walk Away?
When I finally find someone interesting, the frustration grows when I hear she has a boyfriend. Sometimes the frustration continues: the girl's friends tell me how lame the boyfriend is, or how he mistreats her.
By Rich Santos Published
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8 Reasons Guys Are Obsessed With Sex
Sex physically resembles VIP Access because we have to be invited. We work for it, we convince, we campaign, strategize, and pull out all the stops. The woman controls all access.
By Rich Santos Published
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3 Questions About "Home-Wrecking"
Steve Phillips, an ESPN "Baseball Tonight" anchor and former General Manager of the New York Mets, was recently exposed for having an affair with a 22-year old assistant. To grasp of the twists and turns of this story, you should ch...
By Rich Santos Published
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4 Ways A Guy "Plays It Cool"
My niece, Charlotte, is turning 3 in November, but she already has the upper hand on the boys her age. My cousin adopted a Hungarian boy named Paul. He's 5, and he adores Charlotte, but she is not impressed. There's a famous pict...
By Rich Santos Published
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8 Scary Things About Being Older and Single
As I continue my long journey of singleness, I'm encouraged by the legions of other singles who glorify their independence.
By Rich Santos Published
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8 Rules for Breaking Up
Love is like war in many ways, and the most chaotic part of love is the breakup.
By Rich Santos Published
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The Good & Bad of Changing Because of a Relationship
Most relationships change people. I'm trying to figure out how a person changes for the better or changes in a negative way. The best relationships I've seen balance people out. For example, my ridiculous clueless ways mig...
By Rich Santos Published
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How To Lose A Guy in 4 Ways
I'm a terrible flyer but, if a hot girl sits next to me on a plane, I suddenly forget all my fears.
By Rich Santos Published
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My First Experience As Best Man
My first experience as best man at a wedding was stressful. For example, when I arrived at the church with the rest of the grooms' party the day of the wedding, the flowers and photogrophers were nowhere to be found. In fact, they were...
By Rich Santos Published
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Weddings: A Great Place To Meet Ladies
This weekend I'm in Philly to be the best man at my buddy's wedding. Weddings are one of a trilogy great places to hit on women. The other two are bachelorette parties, and bitter "girls night out" Valentine's Day groups. &nb...
By Rich Santos Published
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A Deal Breaker In Atlantic City
For my buddy's bachelor party, I booked rooms at the lavish Caesars Atlantic City. Our plan included "Dusk," the club where the late DJ AM presided over the tunes. Upon arrival, I was immediately impressed by the bathroom.  ...
By Rich Santos Published
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What Is Off Limits To Criticize Women About?
Some work friends and I were recently discussing things that men can not criticize their girlfriends about. It was astounding how incorrect us guys were when trying to lay out our "rights" in terms of constructive criticism. The women i...
By Rich Santos Published
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9 Wrong Reasons To Like Someone
I wish liking someone was simple. Sometimes, people think they like someone when they don't really like them. This phenomenon is based on your situation and circumstance in the dating world.
By Rich Santos Published
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Where Is The Line Drawn With Cheating?
I always thought: anything you wouldn't want your significant other to catch you doing with someone else was cheating. But that's a little unforgiving.
By Rich Santos Published
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Memories From My Weekend At The Beach
My college buddies and I spent it wasting our minds and not thinking about anything important.
By Rich Santos Published
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What's Your Least Favorite Look On A Guy?
My old roommate once bought a leather jacket that was sold out of the trunk of some guy's car in the streets of New York. It was an "Armani" jacket. But upon closer examination, the tag read: "Armandi".
By Rich Santos Published
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The Scent Of A Man
Common sense tells us that someone who smells bad is limiting their chances. But, this is not smell as we know it; it has more to do with the body's "natural" odors than perfume or cologne.
By Rich Santos Published
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Things That Make Us Love September
September Cultural Events - Events in September
By Marie Claire Published
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7 Areas a Guy Considers Manscaping
We asked guys to come clean about their (sometimes dirty) beauty routines. Men Confess: His Secret Pre-Date Primping Habits
By Rich Santos Published
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Are You Ever Really Sure Of Your Relationship?
Before I learned how my mind worked, negative thoughts used to torment me. Some of the common thoughts were: (While driving) "I could totally swerve into the oncoming traffic right now and kill myself." "What separates me from a serial killer? What if I grew up to be one?" "Why do I keep getting headaches? Is it an aneurysm?" ...and so on. Why did I have these thoughts? A shrink explained that everyone gets negative thoughts, I just tended to hold on to them and ruminate over them because I had Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. I felt liberated when I learned that everyone gets "negative" thoughts. The doctor urged me to remember: "a thought is just a thought, it's not an action. Thoughts come and go, and you don't act on every thought." And he was right. I learned to accept the negative thoughts, and all the stress and internal mental analysis and hypochondria they caused melted away. Considering negative thoughts are common in all of us, it stands to reason that both participants in committed relationships second guess their significant other and the relationship on a monthly, weekly, and even daily basis. When do these second thoughts turn into action? Here are some "second thought" moments I remember:
By Rich Santos Published
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3 Dating Red Flags You Can't Ignore
I recently met up with a cute friend I hadn't seen in a while. Like any red-blooded American male (sadly), I considered the hookup chances.
By Rich Santos Published
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Are You Dating a Jerk?
It's sad that I can't get a date when these guys in the MTV show "Is She Really Going Out With Him?" attract tons of girls.
By Rich Santos Published
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I Love You So Much That...I Hate You?
Why do people in relationships argue so much? Maybe, when you care about someone, you want to prove yourself to them.
By Rich Santos Published
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My Celebrity Hot List
I like to think I am not obsessed with celebs; the only reason I permit myself to read Us Weekly is because my sister's name is on the address label every month...
By Rich Santos Published