Marie Claire Marie Claire
  • Celebrity
  • Fashion
  • Beauty
  • Culture
  • Power
  • Nice Talk
  • Style At Large
  • More
    • Politics
    • Career & Money
    • Health & Fitness
    • Power Play
    • Travel
    • Promo Codes
    • Food & Cocktails
    • About Us
    • Subscribe
    • Sex & Love
  • Newsletter SIGN UP TO OUR NEWSLETTER
  • Marie Claire
    Marie Claire Newsletter

    Celebrity news, beauty, fashion advice, and fascinating features, delivered straight to your inbox!


    By submitting your information you agree to the Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policy and are aged 16 or over.

    You are now subscribed

    Your newsletter sign-up was successful


    Want to add more newsletters?

    Marie Claire Daily

    Delivered daily

    Marie Claire Daily

    Get exclusive access to fashion and beauty trends, hot-off-the-press celebrity news, and more.

    Marie Claire Self Checkout

    Sent weekly on Saturday

    Marie Claire Self Checkout

    Exclusive access to expert shopping and styling advice from Nikki Ogunnaike, Marie Claire's editor-in-chief.

    Maire Claire Face Forward

    Once a week

    Maire Claire Face Forward

    Insider tips and recommendations for skin, hair, makeup, nails and more from Hannah Baxter, Marie Claire's beauty director.

    Livingetc

    Once a week

    Livingetc

    Your shortcut to the now and the next in contemporary home decoration, from designing a fashion-forward kitchen to decoding color schemes, and the latest interiors trends.

    Homes & Gardens

    Delivered Daily

    Homes & Gardens

    The ultimate interior design resource from the world's leading experts - discover inspiring decorating ideas, color scheming know-how, garden inspiration and shopping expertise.


    An account already exists for this email address, please log in.
    Trending
    • The Stan Smith Revival
    • New Books
    • Postpartum Texts
    • Life In Plastic
    • Blurred Blush
    1. Celebrity
    2. Royals

    Meghan Markle and Prince Harry Looked at Each Other's Instagrams Before They Met

    "Amazingly for a royal romance, it started on Instagram..."

    By The Editors
    Published 1 September 2021 In News

    When you purchase through links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission. Here’s how it works.

    prince harry meghan markle
    (Image credit: Max Mumby/Indigo)
    • Facebook
    • X
    • Pinterest
    Share this article
    Join the conversation
    Follow us
    Add us as a preferred source on Google
    Subscribe to our newsletter

    We already know that Meghan Markle and Prince Harry were introduced by a mutual female friend, thought to be either Violet von Westenholz or designer Misha Nonoo—but in a modern twist, it appears that the whole thing started on Instagram. Per royal commentator Katie Nicholl, who is featured Channel 5's new documentary about Meghan Markle, the couple did a little Instagram stalking before asking a mutual friend (who Nicholl says was von Westenholz, not Nonoo) to introduce them.

    Said Nicholl, per The Sun: "Amazingly for a royal romance, it started on Instagram." She went on to note that Meghan and Harry reportedly looked through each other's Instagrams and liked what they saw. After that, "it was Violet who really brought them together."

    harry meghan instagram

    Harry and Meghan in 2017, shortly before announcing their engagement.

    (Image credit: Karwai Tang)

    But wait, I hear you say—Prince Harry had an Instagram account? Well, Omid Scobie and Carolyn Durand revealed in 2020's Finding Freedom that Harry had used the username "@SpikeyMau5" on Instagram, a reference to his nickname "Spikey" (he also used the alias "Spike Wells" on Facebook). It's not clear what kind of content Harry posted, but the account's avatar was a Deadmau5-style mouse ear helmet.

    Latest Videos FromMarie Claire
    Watch full video here:

    Meghan began following the account in 2016. "With no face visible in the profile photo, just a mouse-shaped helmet, it would have meant nothing to most people. But it was in fact Harry’s private account," wrote Scobie and Durand.

    prince harry meghan markle

    'Finding Freedom'
    $12.99 AT AMAZON.COM

    In a BBC interview following their engagement, Meghan revealed the question she asked the friend who introduced them. She said: "I didn’t know much about him. So I only asked one question—is he nice? If he wasn’t kind it didn’t seem like it would make sense to me."

    You may like
    • Meghan Markle and Prince Harry match in navy blue outfits while attending an NBA game Meghan Markle and Prince Harry Release Emotional Message
    • Prince Harry smiling in front of a step and repeat Prince Harry’s Cousin Shares Thoughts on His “Exciting” Return to Britain
    • two photos of Meghan Markle picking blackberries Meghan Markle Dabbles in King Charles’ Favorite Hobby Following Their England Reunion

    Meghan, of course, had an Instagram account until she joined the royal family. Scobie and Durand revealed in Finding Freedom that she had posted a telling photo on the evening of her first date with Harry.

    They wrote: “Much bolder was Meghan’s public Instagram post the same night of their first solo date: a photo of a Love Hearts candy with the inscription ‘Kiss Me’ and the caption ‘Lovehearts in #London’."

    Marie Claire Newsletter

    Celebrity news, beauty, fashion advice, and fascinating features, delivered straight to your inbox!

    By submitting your information you agree to the Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policy and are aged 16 or over.
    RELATED STORIES

    london, england march 09 prince harry, duke of sussex and meghan, duchess of sussex meets children as she attends the commonwealth day service 2020 on march 09, 2020 in london, england photo by chris jacksongetty images

    (Image credit: Chris Jackson)

    How Meghan & Harry Spent Their 2-Year Anniversary

    dubbo, australia october 17 prince harry, duke of sussex and meghan, duchess of sussex visit a local farming family, the woodleys, on october 17, 2018 in dubbo, australia the duke and duchess of sussex are on their official 16 day autumn tour visiting cities in australia, fiji, tonga and new zealand photo by chris jackson poolgetty images

    (Image credit: Chris Jackson)

    Meghan & Harry Have Entered Their "Thrive Chapter"

    Explore More
    prince harry meghan markle
    The Editors

    Marie Claire is committed to celebrating the richness and scope of women's lives. We're known for our award-winning features, thoughtful essays and op-eds, deep commitment to sustainable fashion, and buzzy interviews and reviews. Reaching millions of women every month, MarieClaire.com is an internationally recognized destination for celebrity news, fashion trends, beauty recommendations, and renowned investigative packages.

    Read more
    Meghan Markle and Prince Harry match in navy blue outfits while attending an NBA game
    Royals Meghan Markle and Prince Harry Release Emotional Message
    By Amy Mackelden
    Prince Harry smiling in front of a step and repeat
    Royals Prince Harry’s Cousin Shares Thoughts on His “Exciting” Return to Britain
    By Kristin Contino
     
     
    Meghan Markle wears a white jacket and smiles and has long black hair
    Royals Meghan and Harry Are Pursuing an "English Countryside Dream"
    By Amy Mackelden
    Meghan Markle holding Prince Harry's arm wearing LA Dodgers hats
    Royals Meghan Markle “Is Taking One for the Team” For Prince Harry By Moving to Britain
    By Kristin Contino
     
     
    Latest in Royals
    Princess Anne wearing a black coat and brooch
    Royals Princess Anne Brings Back a Nearly 60-Year-Old Brooch For King Harald's Funeral
    Crown Princess Ingrid Alexandra wearing black and a veil at King Harald's funeral
    Royals Norwegian Royals Choose Gems That Speak "The Language of Royal Mourning"
     
     
    Marius Borg Hoiby wearing a suit at King Harald's funeral
    Royals Marius Borg Høiby Leaves House Arrest for King Harald's Funeral
    Prince William at King Harald's funeral
    Royals Prince William Pivots From Eton Dropoff to King Harald's Funeral
     
     
    Latest in News
    Princess Anne wearing a black coat and brooch
    Royals Princess Anne Brings Back a Nearly 60-Year-Old Brooch For King Harald's Funeral
    Crown Princess Ingrid Alexandra wearing black and a veil at King Harald's funeral
    Royals Norwegian Royals Choose Gems That Speak "The Language of Royal Mourning"
     
     
    Marius Borg Hoiby wearing a suit at King Harald's funeral
    Royals Marius Borg Høiby Leaves House Arrest for King Harald's Funeral
    Selena Gomez styled a double-leather look from Khaite for one of her first Fall 2026 outfits
    Celebrity Style Selena Gomez's Favorite Double-Leather Outfit Formula Returns in Time For Fall
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
    Marie Claire
    RSS
    • About us
    • Contact Future's experts
    • Contact us
    • Advertise Online
    • Newsletter
    • Terms and conditions
    • Privacy policy
    • Cookies policy
    • Careers
    Add as a preferred source on Google Add as a preferred source on Google

    Marie Claire is part of Future US Inc, an international media group and leading digital publisher. Visit our corporate site.

    © Future US, Inc. Full 7th Floor, 130 West 42nd Street, New York, NY 10036.