Amber Tamblyn Takes on Sexism and James Woods in Her 'New York Times' Op-Ed
"I have been afraid of speaking out or asking things of men in positions of power for years."
Amber Tamblyn refuses to be silent. Following her revelation that the actor James Woods allegedly hit on her when she was just 16, Tamblyn has written a searing essay for The New York Times, exploring sexism in the entertainment industry. Instead of being hindered by Woods' rebuttal, in which he insisted that the allegations were false, Tamblyn is using her platform to expose a wider problem. Women routinely aren't believed, and that needs to change.
Tamblyn recalls when she was working in television, and a crew member's behavior started making her feel uncomfortable. Tamblyn writes that she went to speak to the show's producer about the issue: "My hands were freezing and I balled my wardrobe skirt up around my fists as I spoke. It was all caught in my throat—my embarrassment that it had gotten to this point. The producer listened." But his reaction wasn't helpful. As Tamblyn recalls, "He said, 'Well, there are two sides to every story.'"
Instead of believing Tamblyn's account, and listening to her genuine concerns, the unnamed producer made her feel as if her worries weren't justified.
Rather than just focusing on incidents in her own life, Tamblyn endeavors to shine a light on all women. As she writes:
"Every day, women across the country consider the risks. That is our day job and our night shift. We have a diploma in risk consideration. Consider that skirt. Consider that dark alley. Consider questioning your boss. Consider what your daughter will think of you. Consider what your mother will think of what your daughter will think of you. Consider how it will be twisted and used against you in a court of law. Consider whether you did, perhaps, really ask for it. Consider your weight. Consider dieting. Consider agelessness. Consider silence."
As the poet, director, and actor highlights, women are regularly made to feel discomfort, are disbelieved, and are forced to live up to impossible standards. Following Woods's insinuation that she lied about their encounter, Tamblyn isn't prepared to stand by, stay silent, or coddle blame.
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And, most importantly, Tamblyn uses her sense of humor to ask, "What would I get out of accusing this person of such an action, almost 20 years after the fact?.. Why would I choose the guy from Scary Movie 2 to help my stature when I'm already married to the other guy from Scary Movie 2?"
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Tamblyn has nothing to gain in this situation, apart from the knowledge that she's supported women all over the world, in taking a stand against those that refuse to take our safety, and our needs, seriously. And for that, we're thankful.
Read Amber Tamblyn's full article: I'm Done With Not Being Believed.
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Amy Mackelden is a contributing editor at Marie Claire, where she covers celebrity and royal family news. She was the weekend editor at Harper’s BAZAAR for three years, where she covered breaking celebrity and entertainment news, royal stories, fashion, beauty, and politics. Prior to that, she spent a year as the joint weekend editor for Marie Claire, ELLE, and Harper's BAZAAR, and two years as an entertainment writer at Bustle. Her additional bylines include Cosmopolitan, People, The Independent, HelloGiggles, Biography, Shondaland, Best Products, New Statesman, Heat, and The Guardian. Her work has been syndicated by publications including Town & Country, Good Housekeeping, Esquire, Delish, Oprah Daily, Country Living, and Women's Health. Her celebrity interviews include Jennifer Aniston, Jessica Chastain, the cast of Selling Sunset, Emma Thompson, Jessica Alba, and Penn Badgley. In 2015, she delivered an academic paper at Kimposium, the world's first Kardashian conference.
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