How Betty Broderick's Children Feel About Their Mom Today
She was convicted for the infamous murder of their father and stepmother.
Alert, true crime fans: The second season of Dirty John, this one called Dirty John: The Betty Broderick Story—which originally premiered on June 2, 2020, on the USA Network—has hit Netflix. Season two is bringing the real-life story of Dan and Betty Broderick to the streamer. The couple made headlines when Betty shot and killed Dan and his new wife, Linda Kolkena, at their home while they were sleeping. Betty and Dan, who had had an ugly and public five-year divorce, shared four kids together: Kim, Lee, Daniel Jr., and Rhett.
In her 2015 memoir, Betty explained this was not the ending she had in mind for her family. "I absolutely adore my children, from the first moment of the day to the last, and still do. They were my priority and I wanted so badly for them to have a happy childhood."
At the time of the couple's 1989 divorce, Dan had full custody of all four kids. According to her memoir, Betty was pregnant nine times during her 16-year-long marriage to Dan. (She reveals in her memoir, her husband did not allow her to use birth control.)
In the 30 years since the murders, the couple's kids have grown up and married and even remain close—based on her Facebook, Kim, Lee, and Rhett live near each other in Idaho—yet they are largely divided about their mother's fate.
Kim Broderick
Kim testified at Betty's murder trials, highlighting her mother's erratic behavior post-divorce. Kim stated in the trial that Betty had told her in a phone call, "I wish you were never born," and "I hate your guts." Betty allegedly also called Kim a "traitor" on more than one occasion.
Kim spoke to People in 1992 to share what her mother would tell her in calls from jail: "If it weren't for you, I wouldn't be here." Kim added: "But I think she's handling it better now." Kim has denied requests from her mom to write a letter supporting her release from prison, per Distractify. (Betty won’t be eligible for parole again until 2032.)
Kim released a 2014 book titled Betty Broderick, My Mom: The Kim Broderick Story, and opened up about how she and her siblings handled what happened (essentially agreeing to disagree). In her book, Kim describes visiting her mother in prison as "the worst heartache and sorrow I could ever imagine" outside of her dad being murdered.
In the TV show, Kim's name is changed to "Tracey." Her graduation is shown as a major point of contention for Betty, who was upset that Dan's new girlfriend Linda was also in attendance for her daughter's big day.
Stay In The Know
Get exclusive access to fashion and beauty trends, hot-off-the-press celebrity news, and more.
Lee Broderick
Lee, the second-oldest Broderick child, also testified in court; Lee was the first person her mother called after firing the gun in Dan's home. Betty reportedly told Lee on the call, "The bitch is dead."
Distractify reports that Lee had a troubled relationship with her father. Dan reportedly amended his will before his death to exclude his second daughter from inheriting any of his fortune (though, it reportedly was due to her problems in school and with drugs, not because of Lee's relationship with her mother). According to the L.A. Times, Dan's will stated his estate be divided equally among his other three children.
Despite her role in the trial, Lee vouched for her mother's release in 2010. She said she missed her father, but told the board that her mom could live with her if released. "She should be able to live her later life outside prison walls," she said, according to The San Diego Union-Tribune.
According to the San Diego Reader, Betty claims Lee is most like her.
Daniel Jr. Broderick
At that same parole hearing in 2010, eldest son Daniel Jr. said that his mother was still "hung up on justifying what she did" and shouldn't be released, per The San Diego Union-Tribune. (You can check out the hearing for yourself here.)
Despite his feelings on the subject, Daniel Jr. and his siblings visit their mother for her birthday, for Mother's Day, and at least once in the summer. The conditions were set by Betty, who didn't want her children to come for Christmas or other big holidays. "I didn't want for all their memories of those times to be of visiting Mom in prison," she said to the San Diego Reader.
Rhett Broderick
The youngest of the four Broderick kids, Rhett learned about the death of his father and stepmother through a family friend.
Oprah interviewed Rhett on her show after his mother's crime. "I just remember thinking, 'Wow.' I wasn't really surprised," he said at the time. "On multiple occasions [my brother and I] went to my dad and said to him that we wanted to live with my mom and that not having her kids was driving her crazy—and that she could do something extremely irrational if she didn't have us."
More than once during Rhett's childhood, he was sent to live with family relatives or in boot camps for troubled kids. "I constantly felt like I was under the microscope, like everything I did, they were trying to blame on my parents' situation," he told Oprah.
Like his sister Lee, Rhett also vouched for his mother's release from prison. On Oprah, he said, "She's a nice lady. Everyone here would like her…if they spoke with her on any topic other than my dad. Keeping her in prison isn't really helping her. She's not a danger to society—the only two people she was a danger to are dead."
RELATED STORIES
Bianca Rodriguez is the Audience Development Manager at Future, covering fashion, beauty, and more for Marie Claire, Who What Wear US and Who What Wear UK. In addition to spearheading SEO content across brands—whether writing about wardrobe must-haves or strategizing how to make eye-catching content—she is also an avid reader with a deep love and knowledge for books of all genres. More often than not, you can find her lounging with a good book on the weekend.
-
32 Great TV Shows That Capture What We Love About Our Closest Friendships
Watch these with your bestie (or when you miss them).
By Katherine J. Igoe Published
-
Princess Kate's Sculpted Cheeks Could Be the Work of This Insider-Loved Treatment
The technique also has Meghan Markle's stamp of approval.
By Hanna Lustig Published
-
Kaia Gerber Test-Drives Selena Gomez's Winter Shoe Styling Hack
There's still a way to wear those open-toe heels.
By Halie LeSavage Last updated
-
Is 'Say Nothing' Based on a True Story? Here's What to Know About Dolours and Marian Price
The new FX series is set in Ireland during The Troubles.
By Quinci LeGardye Published
-
Jaylen Barron Found the Compassion in Controversy in 'American Sports Story'
The actress who plays Shayanna Jenkins in the Ryan Murphy true-crime series discusses relating to the real-life figure.
By Quinci LeGardye Published
-
Who Is Guru Jagat? What to Know About the Kundalini Yoga Instructor From HBO's 'Breath of Fire'
HBO's latest true-crime doc explores the fall of a celebrity yoga instructor and her mysterious death.
By Quinci LeGardye Published
-
'Woman of the Hour' Real-Life Story: Who Is the True Crime Movie Based On?
You'll be surprised by what's fact and what's fiction in the new Netflix movie directed by Anna Kendrick.
By Sadie Bell Published
-
The 100 Best Movies of All Time: The Ultimate Must-Watch Films
We consider these essential viewing.
By Quinci LeGardye Last updated
-
Kim Kardashian Pens Essay Demanding Erik and Lyle Menendez Be Freed From Prison Amid the Release of 'Monsters'
"We owe it to those little boys who lost their childhoods, who never had a chance to be heard, helped or saved," she wrote.
By Sadie Bell Published
-
For Ari Graynor, Playing Leslie Abramson in 'Monsters' Was the 'Gift of a Lifetime'
The actress knew little about the Menendez brothers' case before getting cast as the defense attorney.
By Jessica Goodman Published
-
Ryan Murphy’s True-Crime Shows Have Always Been Sexual—Do They Have to Be?
‘Monsters’ and ‘American Sports Story’ majorly sexualize their real-life subjects—whose cases have already been sensationalized enough—to the detriment of the series’ plots.
By Quinci LeGardye Published