For those who love a dirty little secret, vibrating panties are the ultimate vibrator. These sex toys are compact, discrete toys designed to fit snugly into a pair of underwear. Some of these vibrators come with a pair of underwear specifically made for the gadget, while others are designed to sit inside any pair. Most often controlled via remote or app, these toys are perfect for solo and partner play alike, and can cater to either internal or external stimulation.
Not sure when would be the best time to break out the vibrating panty? These toys are known for the role they can play in turning up the temperature within a sexual relationship by introducing elements of surprise and mild exhibitionism. This can be valuable in a committed, long term relationship that needs a bit of spicing up or simply between partners (serious or not) who enjoy a bit of adventure. Indeed, sexologist and sexpert Dr. Jess O'Reilly says that introducing sex toys such as vibrating panties "can enhance all sexual relationships―with yourself and with a partner," explaining that "the mere presence of a sex toy often leads to new conversations about everything from desires and fantasies to boundaries and hesitations."
No partner? No problem. Sex educator and Lovehoney sexpert Javay Frye-Nekrasova argues that vibrating panties can be valuable tools in mixing up your masturbation routine.
"Vibrating panties aren't just for partner play," she says. "You can use them for a solo, hands-free masturbation session. You can have the vibrator in your panties and use it while grinding or humping another surface for added stimulation."
So, without further ado, check out the best vibrating panties on the market for both internal and external stimulation. And if you need more insight on how to make the best of your vibrating panty purchases, check out our guide on how to use every kind of vibrator.
The Best Vibrating Panties
"While not specifically marketed as a vibrating panty but more a remote-control vibrator, I like LELO’s IDA Wave, which provides simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation," says author and sexpert Dr. Laurie Mintz. "Because of the way it fits, you can place it and the put your panties on and off you go. You can have fun at home or out, internally, and externally."
"This is the ultimate panty vibe with deep, rumbly vibrations," says Dr. Jess O'Reilly. "It’s powerful, quiet, slim and really discreet. You can control it from the toy directly or remotely from the We-Connect app (so there is no limit to the distance between partners). It’s whisper-quiet and has a tiny magnet that holds it in place (the toy goes in your underwear and the flat magnet sits on the outside, so it won’t slip around."
Dr. Mintz recommends this "specific clitoral vibrating panty," which also comes highly recommended by verified buyers online. One reviewer specifically recommends it for long distance relationships because of its app-enabled play, and notes that the toy has a surprisingly long battery life.
This fun (and pretty) wearable vibrator is shaped like a butterfly and is made of "jelly"-like (in the words of one reviewer) material in order to hit all the right external spots and mold to the individual's anatomy. Plus, reviews say that the straps are adjustable and easy to put on, guaranteeing a hassle-free good time.
I love Honey Birdette's sex toys and lingerie, and this vibrating panty seamlessly combines the two. The lacy panty comes in both red and black, and the removable vibrator is, in the words of one customer, "sensational."
This option got great reviews in terms of the strength of the orgasm it provides, but customers determined that its buzzy stimulation was too loud for public use. However, the vibrator's strength and the bow ties on its accompanying underwear make it an ideal fit for foreplay, FaceTime sex, and other private moments.
We love a comfortable pair of underwear, and these vibrating panties fit the bill. Comfortable enough to wear outside (rather than just for sex), reviewers say that they enjoy donning these at the mall, the movies, the club, and more. One particular customer helpfully added that the vibration is "no louder than a cell phone on the highest vibrating function" and that the battery life of the vibrator lasts for two to three hours of continuous use.
This vibrator has a near-perfect online rating, and it's built for discretion: Its accompanying remote comes with a smartwatch function so that you or your partner can discretely control its vibrations in public. No one has to know a thing!
This vibrator is designed to deliver silent, rumbly vibrations that are subtle enough for public use. One reviewer says that she enjoys wearing it on the plane, in restaurants, and in other public spaces, and say that the vibrations are soft enough that she doesn't need to worry about getting too excited and causing a scene.
This product utilizes magnetic wings to stay strapped in, making it intuitive for anyone who's ever worn a pad. One five-star reviewer said that the volume level was low enough for the vibrator to be used in a restaurant but too loud to be used in a silent elevator. Furthermore, they enthusiastically recommended this for people with female partners, saying, "Buy this, buy it now, and be ready for her to want rip your clothes off."
For more, visit our Sexual Wellness section, where we unpack topics around consent, kink, sex toys, and more so you can have your safest and very best sexperiences yet.
Meet the Experts
Javay Frye-Nekrasova, MEd, is a sex educator, pleasure professional, and sex expert for Lovehoney. Specializing in pleasure, communication, and sex toys, she is passionate about making comprehensive sex education accessible for all and is in the process of earning a PhD in Human Sexuality from the California Institute of Integral Studies. Her research focuses on sex work, porn, as well as the relationship between the media and society's understanding of sexuality. She also provides sex education via YouTube and social media for her digital series, In Bed With a Millennial. You can find her on Instagram here: @MillennialSexpert.
Dr. O’Reilly is an award-winning sex and relationship expert. Through her company, Happier Couples Inc.(opens in new tab), she provides online and in-person relationship education to couples. She also works with corporate executives and business owners to help them form stronger professional relationships, and she has performed extensive research on making classroom-based sexual education more robust and accessible. In addition to working as an expert for Lovehoney, she is also featured on Global TV’s The Morning Show and PlayboyTV’s Swing, and co-hosts the Sex With Dr. Jess Podcast(opens in new tab) with her partner, Brandon Ware(opens in new tab).
Dr. Laurie Mintz is an award-winning tenured professor at the University of Florida, where she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality. Her work has been published in over 50 peer-reviewed academic research journals along with six chapters in academic books, and she has maintained a private practice for over 30 years that helps couples and individuals with sexual issues. A Fellow of the American Psychological Association, she has also authored two books: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship. Her overall mission is to provide scientifically accurate, sex positive education that prioritizes female pleasure. Currently, she also works as an expert for LELO.
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