Rich Santos
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4 Reasons Why Dating Is So Hard
Somehow I woke up at 9 a.m. this past Saturday to get Arcade Fire tickets for their upcoming Madison Square Garden show. Their album Funeral has always meant a lot to me as a commentary for growing up and loss of innocence. Their song "Wake
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The Signs He's Cheating
Here are some red flags that may signal that your significant other is cheating.
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Do Women Really Want Commitment?
I've got lots of friends who have given it a shot, tried to tell a woman that they're into her, only to scare her away.
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8 Types of Guys That Won't Commit
Trying to get men to commit is an age-old riddle in the female mind.
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Why Your Guy Won't Initiate Sex
Newsflash: guys don't want to have sex all the time.
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8 Texting Mistakes Men Make
How his phone can make a once promising prospect into a dating nightmare.
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Why Are Couples So Unprepared For Marriage?
What changes in the transition from committed relationship to married life?
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10 First-Date Mistakes
The best thing about bad dates is that we walk away with a great story.
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Can Bad Sex Be Improved?
Can you take steps to improve bad sex? Our male dating blogger thinks so.
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How To Keep A Guy's Attention
Our male dating blogger gives you some useful tips on how to keep a guy's attention
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Biggest Dating Regrets
I went through a phase where I regretted just about every move I made in dating from cold hitting on a girl, to sex, to committing. After enough "mistakes," we have a long wake filled with regret. Here is a list of things we do that we regr
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Can A Love Triangle Be Healthy?
Can a love triangle ever be a healthy thing?
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Is Sexting A Gateway To Cheating?
Is sexting as harmful to a relationship as cheating?
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The Pros and Cons of Summer Dating
After a wonderful Memorial Day trip to the beach, I came up with this list of things I love and hate about summer and dating...
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7 Rules For Setting Up An Online Dating Profile
Recently, my friend asked me to help her build an online dating profile. An online profile is essentially a digital "resume," and like a resume you have to spend some time figuring the best way to highlight your attributes and set the tone
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Advice From Real Wise Sages: Married Women
I admit that my previous post, "Advice From Three Wise Sages: Married Guys" was a bit tongue in cheek. Advice from guys is usually wrong, and advice from married guys is worse. So in an effort to balance the scales, I've collected some adv
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6 Things That Changed Dating
Technology's Influnece on Dating - How Dating has Been Influenced though History
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Can You Control Falling in Love?
Despite our quest for love, we're scared of it and often try to control our feelings in an effort to minimize the chances of a broken heart.
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Advice From Wise Old Sages (Married Guys)
The advice I get from married guys scares me. It's like they are all living as a suppressed population in a far off land, explaining rules that are laid upon their broken spirits by some powerful entity. I guess this is why my married friends see me asRelationships a bastion of hope — a maverick of sorts. I'm like pre-labotomy Jack Nicholson's character in Cuckoo's Nest.
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5 Excuses Guys Use To Explain Their Behavior
Just like any stupid guy, I make the mistake of generalizing women based on a few (and I mean FEW) experiences. A reader reached out to me in the wake of my
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The Fine Art of The Cock Block
It's hard enough to seal the deal without interference from outside forces. Men have invented a slang term in honor of these mood killing outside forces: the cock block. Cock blocking is opposite of the work that a good solid wing man does. A wing ...
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Why Your Boyfriend Can't Orgasm
I wonder if sex is bad for a woman if the guy doesn't orgasm. I'll be completely candid here: I don't orgasm often during oral sex or intercourse. What is the cause of this phenomenon? I'm not sure, but I have a few theories about my affliction...
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