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How To Keep A Guy's Attention
Our male dating blogger gives you some useful tips on how to keep a guy's attention
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The Pros and Cons of Summer Dating
After a wonderful Memorial Day trip to the beach, I came up with thi…
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Setting Up A Dating Profile
Recently, my friend asked me to help her build an online dating prof…
The Great MILF Debate
Terminology gets guys in trouble. We make up horrible terms, like "b…
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5 Reasons For Spring Fever
Spring has arrived, and according to a recent survey about weather a…
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Are Strip Clubs Really That Bad?
Which is more threatening: knowing your boyfriend is at a strip club or out with an ex-girlfriend?
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How Online Dating Relates To "Real Life"
In some ways, online dating is a completely new way of seeking out a romantic partner, but it mimics traditional dating in the real wor…
Why Men Prefer Innocent Girls to Bad Girls
The other day some guys and I were discussing the "innocent" versus the "bad girl". Across the board, the guys agreed they prefer an in…
What Fashion Really Means to Men
I admit that I go clothes shopping when I'm down or not feeling confident. I now realize that fashion plays a big role in my life, and …
Venexiana: Edge Meets Elegance
I recently had the opportunity to attend a Venexiana runway show that was part of the Mercedes-Benz New York Fashion Week for Fall 20…
The 6 Strangest Things About Fashion Week
What is it with women and Fashion Week? I get women and shopping, women and puppies, women and chocolate. But Fashion Week? Women aroun…
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7 Ways I Try To Act Aloof & Mysterious
The most frustrating girl advice is: "act like you don't care." How (and why) should I act like I don't care about someone that I'm int…
How Sophisticated Do You Want Your Guy To Be?
I am striving to be more "cultured."
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5 Dates That Require Sacrifice
Sometimes you have to make sacrifices for the ones you love. Dating blogger Rich Santos counts down the five types of dates he's suffer…
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Do You Feel Pressure To Be Beautiful?
In my office, we were discussing girls' obsession with bags.
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13 Bad Habits to Avoid if You're Single
I'm trying not to fall in these traps.
7 Assumptions We Make in Dating
The conclusions I seemingly "magically" come to get me every time.
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4 Male Habits That Drive Women Crazy
I recently read a book about the strange ways the male mind works.
6 Ways to be One of the Guys
A girl that's truly "one of the guys" never has trouble attracting men.
A Guy Explains What's Up with Man Crushes
I was thinking about how strange man-crushes are.
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7 Ways Guys Use Gimmicks to Get Your Attention
Yes, guys sometimes rely on certain tricks meant to get your attention.
The 7 Most Frustrating Things About Dating
Today, I got another marriage proposal from a girl friend (now I've got two "let's get married when we are older if neither of us is ma…
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6 Types of Humor That Won't Work with the Ladies
Women tell me that sense of humor and ability to make them laugh is number one on their list for attraction even higher than appearanc…
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How Does Your Online Persona Affect Your Dating Life?
In the old days, our pictures and stories used to live safely in vaults in our own home. But now, many of us have an "online persona."
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Is There a Wrong Way to Propose?
A young woman recently emailed me about her boyfriend who proposed to her during sex. 
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My Fantasy Relationship Depicted in a J. Crew Catalog
I hear that romantic fantasizing is healthy. But, like anything, too much of it might be detrimental.
Would an Uninvited Grope Work on You?
I can tell you one thing: I've never kissed a girl two minutes after meeting her...
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7 Lame Sex Moves He Pulls in Bed
I don't have the benefit of studio direction and multiple takes. So, the poor girl is just stuck with my first take, and all my bad mov…
7 Physically Painful Things About Dating
I'm convinced that dating is a physically taxing endeavor, and I wonder if I can deal with...
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6 Looks That Make Men Want to Take You to Bed
Most of the time, women dress for other women. Still, there are certain looks and styles that get my attention, or even arouse me wheth…