The 21 Most Mouthwatering Unisex Perfumes Were Made to Be Shared

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I will yell this from the rooftops for as long as I live: Fragrance has no gender. It’s a conversation that I was recently having with my father, and I was the proudest daughter in the world when he started relaying the same sentiment to my uncles. I firmly believe that all the best fragrances are gender-neutral at their core. As long as you like a smell, it's the one for you. All that being said, diving headfirst into the world of unisex perfumes can feel even more overwhelming than your regular shopping experience, due to the sheer number of options that this philosophy presents. So before you start this journey, there are a few things to note.

First, non-gendered fragrances live on a spectrum. While some may lean floral or citrus, a so-called neutral profile lies in the nose of the beholder. "Since the fragrance experience is so personal, a ‘neutral fragrance’ can mean something different from one person to another, which means there isn’t truly just one true neutral fragrance," explains Frank Voelkl, principal perfumer at dsm-Firmenich. "While the idea of a neutral fragrance exists, its definition remains subjective, as perceptions of gender neutrality can vary greatly among individuals."

Second, instead of focusing on the gender binary, many perfumers and indie fragrance brands emphasize exploration and personal connection in their creations. They encourage clients "to discover scents that resonate with their unique preferences, regardless of perceived gender associations," Voelkl adds.

That said, a perfume's gender neutrality is up to interpretation. (My favorite fun fact is that one of Snoop Dog’s favorite perfumes is Delina from Parfums de Marly, which is a gorgeous rose-forward scent that, for all intents and purposes, would be considered an extremely feminine perfume). Of course, I’d never let you go on this journey alone, so I’ve curated a list of the best unisex perfumes on the market to act as a sort of crash course guide if you need a new fragrance to fall in love with, free from the confines of feminine or masculine tropes. Plus, fragrance experts share their picks for the best unisex perfumes—and what to look for when shopping.

The Best Unisex Perfumes

a hand holding the glass Byredo Desert Dawn bottle on a pink background

This woody, spicy scent is a staple in a fragrance wardrobe.

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a hand holding the glass Liis Ethereal Wave bottle on a black background

For a light fragrance, Liis Ethereal Wave is the way to go.

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a hand holding the Victoria Beckham Beauty 21:50 Rêverie dark green bottle on a black and white background

Vanilla is prominent at the jump, but this settles into a lovely woody scent.

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a hand holding the glass DS & Durga Black Magenta bottle on a pink background

This super-sized bottle will last you years.

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Christian Dior Dioriviera bottle on a brown velvet couch

The fig note differentiates this fragrance from other rose scents.

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What Makes a Perfume Unisex?

Forget the fancy packaging for a moment and think about this: when it comes down to it, we're projecting a story onto our fragrances. All the scent can do is smell how it does.

"Conceptually, unisex fragrances can exist. But nature may still influence you to perceive gender-neutral scents as gendered," explains Moe. We can blame a lot of this on hormones. Estrogen is a female hormone that nourishes the nasal tissue, and when this fluctuates, a woman may pick up on notes that are more sweet, fruity, or floral."

Voelkl adds that, rather than a note used, it’s more the absence of gender coding that makes a scent "unisex." For example, using florals or fruity ingredients for women and aromatic fougere-type ingredients for men typically make us associate scents with those ‘masculine’ or ‘feminine’ tropes," he adds.

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Couples like Russell Wilson and Ciara have even crafted scents together. Their perfume R&C The Fragrance Duo features two separate bottles that perform wonderfully when mixed.

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What to Look For in a Unisex Perfume

  • Style

All perfumes can be unisex, so it's really up to you to decide what style you're going for when making your selection—it's not as easy as, say, searching for a vanilla perfume or wedding day scent.

"Within my creative process, I am not required to think of gender, which gives me a little more freedom not to respect certain structures or fragrance families. Rather, I am able to create disregarding those codes," says Voelkl. "I like to wear fragrances mainly for how they make me feel, meaning they are comfortable and they have a feel-good factor."

Kristi Moe, a scent expert and founder of Zodica Perfumery, says one of her favorite fragrance-related memories is when an overtly masculine customer fell in love with a scent that would "be generally perceived as highly feminine" with its rose base. "He happened to be single and wanted to attract a woman who smelled like the perfume!" she shares.

  • Notes

While a few specific notes often come up in fragrances dubbed "unisex" (bergamot, vetiver, and almond are all great examples), you can play with any fragrance family you crave.

"Notes as such don't have a gender," explains fragrance expert Izzy Yilmaz. "They don't lean into masculine or feminine direction from themselves. It's a tradition that categorizes them into one of the two."

Yvan Jacqueline, Parfums de Marly's President of the Americas adds that while the idea that florals and botanicals are inherently feminine runs rampant in the fragrance community, similar notes, like lavender, are also seen in masculine-leaning creations. The same goes for gourmand ingredients, like vanilla. There are no rules here.

  • Versatility

While we all have our tastes, a good unisex perfume should allow some versatility in your scent wardrobe.

"Most fragrances, especially of designer brands, can be categorized into feminine or masculine scents. However, some unisex fragrances aim for a balanced blend that appeals to both genders without leaning too far in either direction," shares Yilmaz. "Shopping for unisex fragrances offers versatility, allowing individuals to express their unique identity without conforming to traditional gender norms."

How to Wear Unisex Perfume

The easy answer is to spritz on your pulse points and, more importantly, to be open to sharing. A scent will show up differently on your partner than it does on you.

"It’s not necessarily a matter of gender; it’s more a matter of our personal body chemistry, which can vary from person to person and can be based on several factors like nutritional habits and environment," explains Voelkl. "Through the development of fragrances we test and do experience people having the fragrance wear differently on them. For example, some tend to push top notes versus bottom notes on their skin. But again, it's not because of gender, just because we all have different body compositions."

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Meet the Experts

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Frank Voelkl

After graduating from ISIPCA, Frank Voelkl composed his first fragrance, a tiare flower. This creation galvanized his career and paid loving homage to his Tahitian wife. Today, as a contemporary ‘adventurer’ Frank relishes the chance to discover the world, especially his travels to French Polynesia, where its intoxicating air is redolent with the colors and scents of nature in its purest form. These paradisiacal islands – flamboyantly rich in nature and plenitude - are perhaps his greatest inspiration of all.

A quiet yet charismatic man, Frank believes “in creating fragrances that connect with your soul. My goal is to craft scents that will evoke a profound emotional connection – with the power to elicit pure, unadulterated happiness.”

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Izzy Yilmaz

Izzy Yilmaz is a fragrance expert who shares his wisdom with the masses on social media, helping viewers "build their perfect fragrance collection."

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Kristi Moe

Zodica Perfumery is a small-batch and artisanal line of celestial-inspired fine fragrances. Each perfume reflects the emotion and season of its sign as designed by founder Kristi Moe.

Kristi Moe, a national beauty industry veteran, perfected each scent over the course of three years with the world's finest perfume ingredient suppliers. The result is a collection that honors both the sign's essence and seasonal month.

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Yvan Jacqueline

​​For the past 11 years, Yvan Jacqueline has been at the helm of the luxury brand Parfums de Marly and holds the position of President of the Americas.

Prior to his current role in the Americas, the charming and charismatic Yvan worked extensively with retailers and department stores across the globe. He is responsible for opening many countries across Europe, Middle East and Eastern Europe. Initially establishing the footprint and brand identity of Parfums de Marly on a global scale was imperative prior to creating a stronghold in the US Market.

Ama Kwarteng
Ama Kwarteng

Ama Kwarteng is a writer and editor based in Brooklyn, New York. She was formerly the Beauty Director at Coveteur, where she led the site’s beauty and wellness coverage. Before that, she served as the Assistant Beauty Editor at Cosmopolitan. Her work has appeared in The Zoe Report, InStyle, and other publications.

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