My life, like many people's, has lacked many things in the past few weeks. I've been missing the little things, like my five-minute wait in the Starbucks line and watching questionable reality shows with friends. Events across the country have been put on hold, from the Friends reunion to the current NBA and WNBA seasons. So when ESPN announced they would be dropping the Michael Jordan 10-part documentary The Last Dance about the Chicago Bulls' final championship season in 1997-98, it called for a national celebration. The documentary has covered a lot and will continue to, but it may hone in on a couple of key figures in Jordan's life at the time—like his ex-wife, Juanita Vanoy.
Vanoy and Jordan's relationship started after they met through friends.
According to The Washington Post, Vanoy was a loan officer from the Southside of Chicago looking to earn an associate's degree when they first met. The pair were introduced at a Bennigans restaurant in Chicago after a Bulls game in 1985. In a 1992 TV interview, Vanoy explained the two met through a mutual friend who introduced them, thinking they would be a perfect match.
The Post also confirmed Jordan proposed to her during New Year's Eve in 1987 at a fancy downtown Chicago restaurant after two years of dating. She said yes (obviously!), but then...
There was a problem before Jordan and Vanoy tied the knot in 1989.
When Vanoy and Jordan got married in November of 1989, at the Little White Chapel in Las Vegas, they were already the parents of a son, Jeffrey Jordan, who was born the year prior. At first, Jordan did not believe Jeffery was his son.
"She told me she was pregnant, unwed, and that the father of the child was Michael Jordan," Vanoy's attorney Michael Minton said to The Washington Post about meeting with her in July 1988. "She felt she could not get Michael's attention or cooperation or response without the retention of a legal representative." Jordan later "admitted paternity within a few months," and when they tied the knot in Vegas, Jeffrey was at the wedding.
"I'm happy. It was a big move getting married," Jordan said, according to The Washington Post. "It helped me mature."
Vanoy and Jordan have three kids together.
Michael and Juanita then welcomed a second son, Marcus, in 1990, while their daughter, Jasmine, was born in 1992. Both of their sons ended up playing basketball but didn't pursue the NBA like their father. Jeffery is now in charge of the brand digital innovation for Jordan Brand, while his brother Marcus is the founder of a boutique store called Trophy Room.
According to InStyle, Jasmine spent time with the Charlotte Hornets as a basketball operations coordinator but now works at Nike as a Jordan Brand executive.
In a conversation with Crain's Chicago Business, Vanoy talked about how she wanted her kids to create their identities for themselves.
"When they were growing up, most coaches wanted them to wear No. 23," Vanoy said. "I insisted that they not do that. It was important to me. I wanted to make sure that their skills were going to be what they made them and that it was based on how hard they worked."
Vanoy filed for divorce in 2002, but it wasn't finalized until 2007.
People reported Vanoy initially filed divorce paperwork in 2002, citing irreconcilable differences. The couple attempted to reconcile, and she withdrew her petition for a divorce a month later.
Unfortunately, four years later, in December 2006, Jordan and Vanoy announced their split in a joint statement.
"Michael and Juanita Jordan mutually and amicably decided to end their 17-year marriage," the couple's lawyers said in a statement, according to People. "A judgment for dissolution of their marriage was entered today. There will be no further statements."
Vanoy received $168 million in the divorce settlement, one of the largest at the time, according to Chicago Business.
Friends were still shocked by the split at the time. "But they clearly communicate," said family friend Les Coney to PEOPLE. "When Juanita couldn't get the stereo to work, he's the first person she called. And Michael was right there."
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