Why King Charles Was Often "Reduced to Tears" by His Dad Prince Philip, According to a Royal Biographer

"Charles, unlike his feisty sister Anne, did not have the personality to stand up to his father."

Prince Charles, the Prince of Wales, receives his wings at RAF Cranwell in Lincolnshire, UK, 20th August 1971. On the right is his father who is Marshal of the Royal Air Force
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Not all relationships between parents and their children are easy. For King Charles, growing up in the Royal Family meant spending most of his time apart from his mom, Queen Elizabeth II, and dad, Prince Philip. But according to one royal expert, when Charles did interact with his father, it often resulted in tears.

In the book My Mother and I, royal expert Ingrid Seward discussed Charles's challenging childhood, including his sometimes tricky relationship with Prince Philip.

"The Queen, being averse to confrontation of any kind, would go along with whatever Philip decided, and Charles, unlike his feisty sister Anne, did not have the personality to stand up to his father," the royal expert and biographer shared.

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Seward continued, "As a child, the sensitive and shy Prince Charles was reduced to tears when upbraided by his father for some aspect of his behavior. And it was not only when correcting Charles that Philip brought tears to his son's eyes—he would often belittle him in front of guests."

Queen Elizabeth sitting on a blanket with Prince Philip, Prince Charles, Princess Anne and Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor at Balmoral in 1960

"Charles, unlike his feisty sister Anne, did not have the personality to stand up to his father."

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As noted by Seward, some people were critical of the "rough and bullying way in which the father addressed his son in public, which had the effect of driving Charles more and more back into his shell."

The biographer also referenced a telling interview King Charles gave to the BBC in 1969, in which he was asked whether Prince Philip was "a tough disciplinarian." The King responded, "The whole time, yes! I think he had quite a strong influence on me, particularly in my younger days."

Prince Philip, Queen Elizabeth, King Charles and Queen Camilla wearing evening gowns and tuxes

"I think he had quite a strong influence on me, particularly in my younger days."

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With age, Philip and Charles's relationship appeared to improve, but it's hard to ignore the difficulties The King must have faced as a young child.

Amy Mackelden
Weekend Editor

Amy Mackelden is the weekend editor at Marie Claire, where she covers celebrity and royal family news. She was the weekend editor at Harper’s BAZAAR for three years, where she covered breaking celebrity and entertainment news, royal stories, fashion, beauty, and politics. Prior to that, she spent a year as the joint weekend editor for Marie Claire, ELLE, and Harper's BAZAAR, and two years as an entertainment writer at Bustle. Her additional bylines include Cosmopolitan, People, The Independent, HelloGiggles, Biography, Shondaland, Best Products, New Statesman, Heat, and The Guardian. Her work has been syndicated by publications including Town & Country, Good Housekeeping, Esquire, Delish, Oprah Daily, Country Living, and Women's Health. Her celebrity interviews include Jennifer Aniston, Jessica Chastain, the cast of Selling Sunset, Emma Thompson, Jessica Alba, and Penn Badgley. In 2015, she delivered an academic paper at Kimposium, the world's first Kardashian conference.