King Charles "Has Learned to Live With" a "Distorted" Version of the Truth About His Marriage to Princess Diana

"He feels he let down not only the monarchy but also himself and Diana by not calling off the wedding," author Robert Jobson writes.

Prince Charles and Princess Diana wear sweaters and pose in the countryside
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Long after the glamour of their fairytale wedding faded, Prince Charles and Princess Diana's tumultuous relationship became the subject of worldwide gossip. Although the public strongly took Diana's side, for the couple, there was truly no winner in the War of the Waleses. In his new book, The Windsor Legacy, author Robert Jobson suggests that while The King regrets his mistakes with his first wife, the way history was written "frustrates" him greatly.

Charles famously carried on an affair with Camilla Parker Bowles for years, but Jobson points out that Diana was equally as guilty of stepping outside their marriage.

"His detractors focus on his neglect of his young bride and his adultery, branding him unfit for kingship, while overlooking her many affairs," Jobson wrote in the royal biography, released January 6.

Prince Charles and Princess Diana looking away from each other at a banquet

Prince Charles and Princess Diana are pictured on their last foreign tour together in 1992.

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Princess Diana and Prince Charles in their engagement photo

Princess Diana and Prince Charles are seen in a 1981 engagement photo.

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King Charles has never disputed that his marriage was deeply flawed from the start. However, Jobson suggests that the monarch's lingering annoyance lies in how Princess Diana's emotional account of events—both in Andrew Morton's biography and her sensational BBC Panorama interview—was given at a time when public sympathy was overwhelmingly on her side due to Charles's affair.

"What frustrates The King even now is that Diana's version of what happened is still believed, despite being, in his view, 'a tissue of lies' fed to a sympathetic but gullible press," Jobson writes. "It is wrong in his opinion that they have become 'historical fact.'"

Rather than attempt to rewrite history, King Charles has carried the consequences of the past with him. "Over time Charles has learned to live with this distorted image, especially after Diana's death, realising that no amount of effort can erase the stains on his reputation," Jobson writes.

"He feels he let down not only the monarchy but also himself and Diana by not calling off the wedding, when he knew it was wrong," the author adds.

Kristin Contino
Senior Royal and Celebrity Editor

Kristin Contino is Marie Claire's Senior Royal and Celebrity editor. She's been covering royalty since 2018—including major moments such as the Platinum Jubilee, Queen Elizabeth II’s death and King Charles III's coronation—and places a particular focus on the British Royal Family's style and what it means.

Prior to working at Marie Claire, she wrote about celebrity and royal fashion at Page Six Style and covered royalty from around the world as chief reporter at Royal Central. Kristin has provided expert commentary for outlets including the BBC, Sky News, US Weekly, the Today Show and many others.

Kristin is also the published author of two novels, “The Legacy of Us” and “A House Full of Windsor.” She's passionate about travel, history, horses, and learning everything she can about her favorite city in the world, London.