Royal Author Reveals Queen Elizabeth Was "Not Amused" at Duchess Sophie's One Faux Pas and Gave Her a "Look" Sophie Never Forgot

Sean Smith shares the story in his new biography about the Duchess of Edinburgh.

Queen Elizabeth wearing a mint green coat and grimacing and Duchess Sophie wearing a rainbow colored jacket and huge hat
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Duchess Sophie shared a close relationship with her mother-in-law, Queen Elizabeth, and the monarch came to favor Prince Edward's wife so much that she was even called the late Queen's "true favorite." But in a new biography about the Duchess of Edinburgh, author Sean Smith shares that Sophie once made a mistake during the early days of her marriage that left Queen Elizabeth "not amused."

In Sophie: Saving the Royal Family (via the Daily Mail), Smith writes that the late Queen's remarked, "you wouldn't notice her in the crowd" when first meeting Prince Edward's new PR professional girlfriend. While the comment might not seem kind, it was actually a compliment of sorts. Smith noted that blending in was seen as a good thing by Queen Elizabeth, with the author calling Sarah Ferguson and Princess Diana the "tabloid gifts that kept on giving." After all, "it was greatly to Sophie's advantage to maintain a low profile," Smith notes.

Sophie and Edward married in 1999, and two years later, the duchess (then known as the Countess of Wessex), made an embarrassing gaffe after the News of the World tricked her with a fake Sheikh pretending to be a potential public relations client. "The Queen was willing to ignore the media storm over Sophie's Fake Sheikh, but that did not mean she was able to escape being at the wrong end of the 'look,'" Smith wrote.

Queen Elizabeth wearing a blue coat and hat standing next to Duchess Sophie in a pink floral dress and hat at Royal Ascot

Queen Elizabeth and Duchess Sophie are seen at Royal Ascot 2019.

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Queen Elizabeth, Duchess Sophie and other guests standing up drinking a toast at a state banquet in 2001

Duchess Sophie (top of photo) is seen turning toward her mother-in-law during a 2001 state banquet.

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Queen Elizabeth riding horses with Duchess Sophie in 1998

Queen Elizabeth is seen riding horses with Sophie in 1998, when the duchess was dating Prince Edward.

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Smith shares that Sophie "was at a palace state banquet and was still fussing around trying to find her seat when the Queen rose to speak," which annoyed Queen Elizabeth.

"The Queen was not amused at having to wait," he added. Apparently, Sophie later shared, "I shan't forget that look," and "made a mental note never to do that again." The incident certainly didn't repeat itself, as the future Duchess of Edinburgh then "became the model daughter-in-law, so much so that she was routinely referred to in the media as the Queen's second daughter."

"Quietly, and without fuss, the Queen began to rely on Sophie for female company after both Princess Margaret and the Queen Mother died within such a short space of time," Smith writes, revealing that the pair would "stay up late discussing history" or watching TV together. "Sophie would love to do it," he added.

Kristin Contino
Senior Royal and Celebrity Editor

Kristin Contino is Marie Claire's Senior Royal and Celebrity editor. She's been covering royalty since 2018—including major moments such as the Platinum Jubilee, Queen Elizabeth II’s death and King Charles III's coronation—and places a particular focus on the British Royal Family's style and what it means.

Prior to working at Marie Claire, she wrote about celebrity and royal fashion at Page Six Style and covered royalty from around the world as chief reporter at Royal Central. Kristin has provided expert commentary for outlets including the BBC, Sky News, US Weekly, the Today Show and many others.

Kristin is also the published author of two novels, “The Legacy of Us” and “A House Full of Windsor.” She's passionate about travel, history, horses, and learning everything she can about her favorite city in the world, London.