For years, my work wardrobe was defined by structure—tailored suits, sharp blazers, a palette that rarely strayed from navy, black, and grey. As a probation officer, I had to dress the part, and that meant putting professionalism and practicality first.
Both my career and I have evolved since then. So has my relationship with fashion: I’ve learned that authority doesn’t come from dark tailoring, but rather from confidence and from wearing something that truly reflects who you are. For years, I stayed within a very muted palette and limited scope of what I thought "looking professional" meant, but growing older has made me braver, more expressive, and far more willing to play. I’ve also gained a much clearer understanding of myself and what feels right on me.
The older I get, the more my idea of office wear has opened up. I’m no longer trying to meet some rigid standard. I’ve learned that structure can coexist with softness, that elegance doesn’t mean only wearing suits, and that color can be just as strong as black. When I step into business meetings today, I choose pieces that feel powerful yet personal. I gravitate toward pieces that feel modern, comfortable and intentional— outfits that bring out my confidence, rather than conceal it. Getting older hasn’t narrowed my style; it’s expanded it, in the best possible way.
What I love most about getting dressed for work now is the freedom to shape my own version of “professional.” Some days, it’s sharp tailoring. Others, it’s texture or something completely unexpected. It just always has to feel like me. Because great workwear isn’t about following a dress code—it’s about showing up as the fullest version of yourself.
Ahead, discover how I've learned to rethink traditional office staples and make my workwear work for me.
Over the years, I’ve realized that shorts are actually one of my favorite fall work pieces—especially when I want to feel polished but not too serious. A sharp, pleated short paired with a crisp white shirt and an argyle cardigan gives me the balance I look for now between structure, comfort, and a hint of playfulness. With sheer tights, pointed heels, and a classic bag, I've got an outfit I’d wear to any meeting.
I love leaning into texture and layering in workwear. A trench-inspired skirt styled with over-the-knee boots brings just the right amount of quiet drama into an office setting. The belted waist and clean front slit keep this one timeless. I add warmth via a soft grey knit over a white shirt, which also keeps the look polished. This is an outfit that reminds me how beautiful workwear can be when practicality meets personality—a grown-woman balance I’ve come to really appreciate.
There are moments when I want something structured but still a little cheeky—that's when this Moschino dress comes out. Its tailored silhouette and deconstructed details feel modern and confidently offbeat. Layered over a black turtleneck with sheer tights, and pointed heels, it’s sleek and meeting-ready. A playful accessory, like this spaghetti clutch, adds a hint of humor that feels very true to my approach to style: polished, but never too serious.
I keep coming back to the classic suit and tie—probably the most traditional work outfit on paper, yet one that consistently makes me feel powerful. There’s something about stepping into sharp tailoring that instantly shifts my posture and mindset. I love the clean structure of a double-breasted jacket, the movement of wide-leg trousers, and the unexpected softness of a trench coat layered on top. The tie brings a subtle masculine energy, but the overall look remains elegant and unmistakably me. It’s a reminder that timeless pieces can feel surprisingly fresh when worn with intention.
One pairing that still surprises me—in the best way—is a checked suit worn with a faux-fur top. The tailoring gives me the grounded structure I always appreciate in an outfit, while the plush texture adds warmth and a touch of quiet luxury. It’s unexpected, but that’s exactly why it works. With a rich brown bag, statement earrings, and pointed heels, it becomes an office look that feels both classic and contemporary.
This look—wide-leg trousers, Moschino’s printed "braces” shirt, two slim belts stacked at the waist—is simple on paper, yet incredibly elevated in practice. The relaxed striped shirt brings ease, the printed braces give a subtle wink of personality, and the belts add definition. Paired with a structured leather bag, it’s elegant in a quiet, confident way—the kind of office outfit that doesn’t need to shout to make its presence known.
