The 50 Best Sexy Romantic Movies With Steamy Love Scenes
These love scenes from romantic films are equal parts sensual and swoon-worthy.
A movie doesn’t technically need any sex scenes at all to qualify as sexy. In fact, some of the most beloved, deeply romantic movies of all time—think Pride and Prejudice, Casablanca, and so many more—don’t have any nudity in them at all. That said, a well-shot sex scene can often send a movie over the edge (pun very much intended). Yes, sometimes sex scenes are pure, carnal expressions of lust, but some of the hottest sex scenes in movies are actually tender, sensual, and, yes, incredibly romantic. If you're in the mood for a romance film that showcases the art of making love in the all-caps, L-O-V-E sense of the word, then your Google sleuthing has led you to precisely the right place.
We've dug deep into the annals of pop culture for examples of movies that truly illustrate the difference between "having sex" and "making love." You know, the kinds of movies that will make your heart flutter and your stomach fill with those first-love butterflies. From obvious old-school love stories like Dirty Dancing and From Here to Eternity to modern classics like Titanic and The Notebook, with a few under-the-radar (but still eternally worthy) indie picks thrown into the mix for good measure, read on for a definitive guide to 50 of the sexiest romantic movies ever made.
Hot, Steamy Sex Scenes
Y Tu Mama Tambien
Diego Luna? Gael Garcia Bernal? Lots of road trip sex scenes and beautiful Mexican vistas? Yes please. Of course, this movie is more than just a coming-of-age film about two boys and the slightly older woman who teaches them about sex. It's also poignantly thoughtful, about the way even things that seem like they'll last forever inevitably change. But, you know, the sex scenes.
9 1/2 Weeks
Though it was considered too sexy for American audiences when it was released in 1986 and got a heavy edit before hitting theaters, this film starring Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger follows a finance bro and an art gallerist whose love affair starts out pretty straight-laced, but who soon start delving into their kinks in the bedroom. It flopped when it first came out, but has become a cult classic in the years since.
Damage
A member of the English Parliament played by Jeremy Irons (as a sexy silver fox, btw) starts an affair with his son’s gorgeous French fiancée (Juliette Binoche). Because as we all know, forbidden sex is the hottest sex.
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Below Her Mouth
Set over the course of three days, this sexy, sexy movie follows two women, Jasmine and Dallas, as they fall in love with each other. The love scenes are passionate and steamy AF.
Blue Valentine
Blue Valentine is not a movie for the faint of heart. The film's plot goes to some pretty dark places, but the scenes of Dean (Ryan Gosling) and Cindy's (Michelle Williams) early, happy days are pure romance (and lust).
Secretary
And speaking of cult classics (though this one was just a beloved indie film from the jump), Secretary is a weird little movie about a boss and his secretary—shocking, I know—who realize they share a love of BDSM. Because what's more romantic than hopelessly unfulfilled people happening upon the only other person they know who's into the same stuff they are? And Maggie Gyllenhaal is brilliant in it, of course.
Fifty Shades Freed
The final installment in the Fifty Shades trilogy saw Ana become Mrs. Grey and take a lot more agency in her sexual relationship with Christian. The romance is in the fact that both parties are fully into what's going on in the bed and satisfied with the partnership.
Do the Right Thing
Two words: Ice. Cubes.
Blue Is the Warmest Colour
The love scenes between Adèle and Emma in Blue Is the Warmest Colour exude love and romance (and sexiness. Also lots of sexiness).
Disobedience
Rachel Weisz and Rachel McAdams star in this powerful story about a woman, Ronit (Weisz), who returns to her estranged Orthodox Jewish community after the death of her father, the community’s rabbi, and slowly rekindles an old romance with McAdams’ Esti, who’s now married to a rabbi herself. It’s a very slow burn, but their climactic (literally!) sex scene is a moving depiction of the bond between the two women, and of female pleasure, too.
The Idea of You
Sure, The Idea of You has its cheesy, fanfic-worthy moments—it is about a 40-something single mother falling in love with the much-younger member of a boy band that her daughter grew up swooning over. But Solène and Hayes’ (Anne Hathaway and Nicholas Galitzine) love story will still have you swooning, as will their sex scenes that, per the film’s makers, were specifically crafted to prioritize female pleasure.
Friends With Benefits
This 2011 rom-com explores whether adding casual sex to a platonic friendship can be sustainable (spoiler alert: no, it can not). So, obviously, it’s filled with plenty of sexy scenes: both of the fun, jokey variety, as Jamie and Dylan (Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake) first start hooking up and getting to know each other in the process, and of the more tender, romantic variety, as they inevitably start to catch feelings.
Thrilling and Romantic Sex Scenes
Unfaithful
Mostly a drama (so if you don't want things to get way too real, feel free to skip the ending), this movie about a wife who strikes out on an affair is also extremely steamy. Seriously, the sex scenes between Diane Lane and Olivier Martinez are next-level.
Skyfall
James Bond has always been known as a ladies' man and a sex symbol and the shower love scene between Daniel Craig's take on the iconic super spy and Sévérine in Skyfall shows how 007 keeps earning his rep, over and over.
Eyes Wide Shut
Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman were a real-life couple when they starred in this film. Honestly, it's a weird Stanley Kubrick movie that involves a now-infamous surrealist sex party scene, but the chemistry is palpable between the leads.
Gangster Squad
Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone have sizzling onscreen chemistry (a fact they've proven multiple times now), but their sly flirtation (and steamy post-coital makeout) in Gangster Squad was, well, the highlight of the movie Gangster Squad.
Troy
Helen might have been the cause of the Trojan War, but in the 2004 film Troy, it's the love scene between Achilles and Briseis (played by Brad Pitt and Rose Byrne, respectively) that will really get you hot and bothered.
Atonement
Is there anything hotter than forbidden love? If you think there is, you clearly haven't watched the library love scene between Keira Knightley and James McAvoy in Atonement recently.
Mr. and Mrs. Smith
Sometimes there's a fine line between love and hate—and no movie has ever captured that fact better that Mr. and Mrs. Smith, particularly in the scene in which married rival spies Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie literally destroy their damn house fighting and making love.
Challengers
All those intense back-and-forth scenes—both on and off the tennis court—definitely qualify Challengers as a thriller. Equally thrilling are its many very sexy scenes, including Zendaya’s character Tashi’s often-illicit hookups over the years with Patrick (Josh O’Connor) and, of course, that almost-threesome between Tashi, Patrick, and Art (Mike Faist). Talk about a power throuple!
Super-Romantic Love Scenes
Top Gun
The slow, silhouetted love scene in Top Gun will actually take your breath away.
The Photograph
A woman (Issa Rae) falls in love with the journalist investigating her mother’s storied photography career, and despite her own estrangement with her mom, she rediscovers their relationship while creating a totally different one. This film is as romantic as it is super steamy.
The Notebook
As adults, most of us know that things that look like fantastic, romantic ideas on the big screen are kind of a disaster in real life. No matter how wise you are in the ways of romance, however, the kissing-in-the-rain scene from The Notebook will make you lust for a thunderstorm and a Gosling of your very own.
Romeo + Juliet
There's a lot to love about Baz Luhrmann's 1996 adaptation of Romeo and Juliet, but the pool scene tops the list—even if it's not the moment the characters actually consummate their forbidden love.
Legends of the Fall
Legends of the Fall will make you feel lots of feels, but the sexy love scene between Tristan and Susannah is one of the movie's most romantic (and steamiest) moments.
Jerry Maguire
You had me at hello...and also at this oh-so-sensual sequence.
Love Jones
Love Jones explores the age-old question: When you hook up on the first date and want to keep things casual but end up falling in love, what do you do?
Wet Hot American Summer
Yes, Wet Hot American Summer is a sex comedy spoof, but there's some real heart (and sexiness) in the tender moments Ben (Bradley Cooper) and McKinley (Michael Ian Black) share in the tool shed.
The Lucky One
Shower sex is impractical and outdoor shower sex is even more so, but it's swoon-worthy in this Zac Efron romance.
Love & Other Drugs
In Love & Other Drugs, Anne Hathaway and Jake Gyllenhaal deliver perfect performances as a couple whose no strings attached situationship evolves into something much deeper.
Jason's Lyric
Jada Pinkett Smith and Allen Payne star in this 1994 romantic drama about a young couple dealing trying to balance love and maturity. Their love scene in the woods is slow, passionate and HOT.
Boys Don't Cry
In 1999's Boys Don't Cry, Hilary Swank plays a young trans man (true representation was definitely still a rarity when the film was made) who enjoys a tender night with the girl of his dreams (played by Chloë Sevigny). The movie includes some very steamy, very romantic oral expressions of affection by a lake.
From Here to Eternity
By modern standards, the love scene in From Here to Eternity is tamer than tame. By 1953 standards, though, the beachside passion of Deborah Kerr and Burt Lancaster is hot, hot, hot (and romantic, to boot).
Coming Home
Sex scenes featuring characters living with disabilities are, well, rare to say the least. That's just part of what makes the love scene between Jane Fonda and Jon Voight in Coming Home so special. The other part? Jon's character brings Jane's to climax via cunnilingus—making this a very rare display of female pleasure in film for the 1970s.
Out of Sight
Does it get sexier than J.Lo and George Clooney getting it on? The 1998 movie Out of Sight proved that no, it does not.
Love & Basketball
Love & Basketball tells a decades-spanning love story and the scene when the movie's leads, Monica (Sanaa Lathan) and Quincy (Omar Epps), make love for the first time is romantic, real, and iconic.
Moonlight
Romantic love scenes don't have to be about penetrative sex or even oral sex. They don't even have to involve nudity. The scene in which Chiron sits on the beach with his male classmate, who touches him for the first time, proves all of the above.
Pretty Woman
Speaking of impractical places to have sex, Pretty Woman's piano scene (in a public hotel restaurant, no less) will make you want a baby grand.
Cruel Intentions
Who knew that a love scene between a girl and the guy who bet that he could take her virginity could turn out to be so romantic? The key, of course, is that Sebastian really fell for Annette (and the real-life love between Ryan Phillippe and Reese Witherspoon didn't hurt either).
Ghost
The famous pottery-making scene between Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze is probably also less sexy and romantic (and more messy) in real life, but man does it look dreamy on screen.
The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Pt. 2
It took four movies, but Bella and Edward finally tied the knot and consummated their relationship in a night of sweet-turned-intense honeymoon sex.
Titanic
The illicit love scene between Jack and Kate in Titanic made foggy window handprints a symbol of eroticism and romance for an entire generation.
Brokeback Mountain
The tender tent scene in Brokeback Mountain will go down in history as one of the most romantic movie love scenes of all time. Bonus points for showing that true love knows no barriers when it comes to identity or sexuality.
Before Sunrise
Everything about Before Sunrise is romantic in that early-20s kind of way, but the love scene in the park epitomizes the romance (and romanticization) of the characters' brief encounter.
Dirty Dancing
Baby and Johnny's love story is one of the great movie romances of our (or any other) time, and their love scene is as sensual as we ever could have hoped for.
The English Patient
In this epic romance, a badly burned cartographer (Ralph Fiennes) is hospitalized in 1944, telling his nurse (Juliette Binoche) the story of his love affair with the married Katharine Clifton (Kristin Scott Thomas) before World War II broke out. He doesn’t spare many details: The movie is full of passionate love scenes between Fiennes and Thomas that are sure to make you swoon—just like Katharine did when she needed an excuse to leave a Christmas party and meet up with her secret lover.
Red, White & Royal Blue
Red, White & Royal Blue, which is based on Casey McQuiston’s novel of the same name, is already a truly delightful rom-com of the “giggling and kicking your feet” variety, as it’s all about a secret romance between the First Son of the United States and the prince of England. But the film has also made headlines for its refreshingly accurate portrayal of gay sex—as depicted in a series of wildly passionate and sweetly tender moments between Alex and Henry.
The Fault in Our Stars
Precisely engineered to tug every last heartstring, The Fault in Our Stars is the heartbreaking story of two teenage cancer patients (played by Shailene Woodley and Ansel Elgort) who fall in love. A major chunk of the movie sees the duo travel to Amsterdam on a Make-a-Wish-style trip, with the knowledge that it could very well be one or both of the teens’ last trips ever. So, while there, they decide to check another item off the bucket list. Their first time is awkward and honest and giggly and sweet, which really adds to the whole “doomed romance” thing.
Bros
Bros made history in 2022 as the first gay rom-com to be released by a major studio, and along with offering a true-to-life portrayal of a queer love story, the sex scenes scattered throughout the film also provided a very realistic depiction of the awkwardness, hilarity, and sensuality that come with learning the sexual quirks and kinks of a new partner over time. As writer and star Billy Eichner said in an interview with Out magazine at the time, “I love the idea of making the sex scenes both funny and absurd, but also very sweet and romantic. Because sex can be all of those things.”
A Family Affair
Though this Netflix rom-com is much heavier on the “com” part of the genre, there’s still quite a bit of romance to be found in the budding love story between Nicole Kidman’s Brooke and Zac Efron’s Chris, the famous movie star that Brooke’s daughter Zara (Joey King) works for. The film’s spiciest sex scene is a perfect example of that balance: Just as things are heating up between the pair upon their first meeting, Zara walks into her mother’s bedroom to find them in a very compromising position—after which she promptly walks face-first into a wall and brings that situation to a very swift end.
Kayleigh Roberts is a freelance writer and editor with over 10 years of professional experience covering entertainment of all genres, from new movie and TV releases to nostalgia, and celebrity news. Her byline has appeared in Marie Claire, Cosmopolitan, ELLE, Harper’s Bazaar, The Atlantic, Allure, Entertainment Weekly, MTV, Bustle, Refinery29, Girls’ Life Magazine, Just Jared, and Tiger Beat, among other publications. She's a graduate of the Medill School of Journalism at Northwestern University.
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