Sarah Ferguson Relied on One Royal Relative—Whom She Considered "More of a Mother" Than Her Own Flesh and Blood—During Ex-Prince Andrew "Crisis"

They're "able to completely and utterly dilute chaos."

Prince Andrew wears a top hat and tails while his ex-wife Sarah Ferguson wears a bright yellow dress with a green feathered hat
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Despite finalizing her divorce from Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor in 1996, Sarah Ferguson remained extremely close to her ex-husband. Whenever the former Duchess of York needed advice or sought help regarding the Andrew "crisis," she reportedly turned to one royal relative in particular.

In March 2023, Ferguson spoke to the Telegraph and revealed she'd always stand by the former Prince Andrew. She also celebrated her close friendship with her mother-in-law, the late Queen Elizabeth II, praising the monarch's "ability to listen and never judge." Ferguson explained (via the Express), "She was able to completely and utterly dilute chaos. And still carry on. And still smile. And still go through everything that she went through."

When it came to Ferguson's divorce from the late Queen's son, she was reportedly supportive of her ex-daughter-in-law. "She understood all of it," Ferguson told the outlet. "Everything. And it wasn't even about forgiving, but a way of life. Duty, sense of purpose, but of course never judgment."

Ex-Prince Andrew, Sarah Ferguson, and Queen Elizabeth II standing outside Clarence House in London for the Queen Mother's 86th birthday on August 4, 1986

Ex-Prince Andrew, Sarah Ferguson, and Queen Elizabeth II in London on August 4, 1986.

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The ex-Duchess of York also shared that she grew even closer to Elizabeth II when the late monarch's "poor son" Andrew was "going through such a tumultuous time"—due to his connection to convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein. "I think [Her Majesty] was very relieved I could help her with him, so we became even closer, then," Ferguson explained. "But I've always admired and adored her. Really, she was more of a mother to me than my mother."

During the same conversation, Ferguson confirmed that Queen Elizabeth "knew" prior to her death on September 8, 2022, that Andrew's ex-wife would "always be there" for him. "Always," Ferguson told the outlet. "Because I love her." She also noted what a huge loss the former Queen's death was. "When Andrew went through a hard time, I used to be able to throw it to The Boss," she explained.

Sarah Ferguson, ex-Prince Andrew, Queen Elizabeth II, and Prince Philip celebrate the monarch's 60th birthday on April 21, 1986 at Buckingham Palace in London

Sarah Ferguson, ex-Prince Andrew, Queen Elizabeth II, and Prince Philip on the Buckingham Palace balcony on April 21, 1986.

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During an appearance on the "Tea With Twiggy" podcast in August 2021, Ferguson made it clear just how much she loved and respected Queen Elizabeth. "I think to myself that honestly, my mother-in-law has been more of a mother to me than my mother," the Duchess of York said (via the Express). "I absolutely think there is no greater mentor because from a little girl to now, the consistency of Her Majesty has been a great honor and makes me want to cry."

As Andrew was often labeled as Queen Elizabeth's favorite son, it makes a lot of sense that the monarch became so close to his spouse, too.

Amy Mackelden
Weekend Editor

Amy Mackelden is the weekend editor at Marie Claire, where she covers celebrity and royal family news. She was the weekend editor at Harper’s BAZAAR for three years, where she covered breaking celebrity and entertainment news, royal stories, fashion, beauty, and politics. Prior to that, she spent a year as the joint weekend editor for Marie Claire, ELLE, and Harper's BAZAAR, and two years as an entertainment writer at Bustle. Her additional bylines include Cosmopolitan, People, The Independent, HelloGiggles, Biography, Shondaland, Best Products, New Statesman, Heat, and The Guardian. Her work has been syndicated by publications including Town & Country, Good Housekeeping, Esquire, Delish, Oprah Daily, Country Living, and Women's Health. Her celebrity interviews include Jennifer Aniston, Jessica Chastain, the cast of Selling Sunset, Emma Thompson, Jessica Alba, and Penn Badgley. In 2015, she delivered an academic paper at Kimposium, the world's first Kardashian conference.