Not all guys are obsessed with sex. Some of my friends and I would honestly rather have their football team win than get laid, are too lazy to deal with getting laid, or dont put so much stock into getting laid. But my friends and I are an abnormal lot.
Ive come up with reasons to explain why many guys are sex-obsessed. Keep in mind Im not defending being obsessed with sex. Im just attempting to shed light on why a guy might be obsessed with sex to give you some peace of mind:
We Have To Be Let In
Sex physically resembles VIP Access because we have to be invited. We work for it, we convince, we campaign, strategize, and pull out all the stops. The woman controls all access. Men enjoy the challenge of obtaining this invitation.
It Symbolizes Success To Guys
My friend enjoys insulting me by asking: whens the last time you got laid? I dont find it insulting when he asks me this- Im just puzzled why he thinks getting laid makes someone so great. I just want to be called cute, or kiss a cute girl anyway. Guys insult guys who arent getting laid, and praise guys who get it all the time. Now if my friend wants to call me out for not getting a kiss or not being called cute in eons, thats would hurt! Some guys think: "If I'm nice, she might have sex with me," instead of "If I'm nice, she might like me."
