We understand the importance of an quality sex tip: The key is to ultimately pleasure yourself, but while pleasing your guy in the process. So we took to the internet via Reddit and polled our male pals to get their straightforward advice. Read, practice, repeat.
If you feel yourself getting upset, excuse yourself from the conversation, take a walk, and return when you're more level-headed. Men will be more receptive to your conversation when you're not agitated. via Reddit, "AskMen" (Relationships)
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First Date Sex?
No sex on the first date, if you ever want him to take you seriously. Period. via MC's male friends
Get handsy in bed, at the dinner table, in a movie, or walking down the street. It makes him feel good and helps him think he's doing something right. via MC's male friends
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Hobbies & Interests
Make your life outside of your relationships a point of pride. Don't be afraid to share your interests, hobbies, and friends with your partner. If he's the right guy, he'll find that extremely attractive. via Reddit, "AskMen" (Relationships)
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Common Courtesy
Be cognizant of how you treat the waiters or patrons on a first date — for many men, that basic etiquette is their number one deal-breaker. via MC's male friends
Do not outwardly blame your significant other. Doing so will make them defensive and give them more of a reason to raise their voice. Instead, be honest, polite, and calm about the subject you are trying to bring up. via Reddit, "AskMen" (Relationships)
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The Ex Threat
If you were close with an ex's family and remain in contact with them — even minimally — after a breakup, be prepared for that to be a major threat to any future suitors. Men don't like knowing they have difficult competition from the get-go. via Reddit, "What is something every girl should know about relationships?"
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Getting Back with an Ex
Spending time with your ex recently? Don't bring up the past until you know exactly how you feel [about your new guy]. It's unfair to demand that he tell you what his intentions are when you don't know your own. via Reddit, "AskMen" (Relationships)
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Slow Down
Moving too quickly towards heavy emotional dependence is a major red flag, not a sign of affection. Contain your clinginess for the first few dates. via MC's male friends
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Communication Is Key
Communicate heavily during sex, and let him know what you like — watching a girl get turned on is amazing for a guy. via MC's male friends
Stimulate the perineum — the part beneath his testicles that gets hard when he has an erection. Pro tip: Massage that while you're giving him a blowjob. via MC's male friends
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Men Love the Chase
We all know that men love "the chase," but men who are pursuing you like crazy after the first date aren't being sincere. Why? He doesn't have to care about boundaries with a woman he's only trying to sleep with. If he still shows interest after a few dates, that's another story. via Reddit, "AskMen" (Relationships)
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50 Things Men Want You to Know Right Now About Dating & Sex
If it appears a man is irrationally irritated, it's his way of saying, "I want you to listen to me to help me feel better." As his significant other, it's your job to ask him how he's feeling. via Reddit, "AskMen" (Relationships)
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"I'm Fine"
The "I'm fine" placeholder drives both men and women crazy, and not in a good way. When a guy says "I'm fine," he's obviously upset, but trying to work through his own feelings internally. Once he figures that out, he'll talk. via Reddit, "What is something every girl should know about relationships?"
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Intimate Date Night
When it's your turn to plan a date, opt for something intimate and simple. Most men prefer an evening spent cooking at home instead of a sunset picnic. via MC's male friends
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Know Yourself
You need to get to know yourself and learn about your needs. Only when you know yourself can you ask your partner to help you get what you want [in bed]. via Reddit
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Friendzoning
If you find yourself "getting friendzoned" (i.e. falling for a guy who would rather watch the game with you than take you to dinner), keep the contact to a friendly minimum. If you're able to keep your composure around him, just be yourself, making sure that you keep the ball in his court. If he's interested, he will act on it. via MC's male friends
Your significant other has needs, too! Ask them what they are, so you can both be happy. via MC's male friends
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Compromise
In a disagreement, be willing and ready to compromise on realistic requests. Each person needs to get their needs met. via Reddit, "AskMen" (Relationships)
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Talk Dirty
Don't be afraid to talk dirty. Guys love hearing how hot he makes you in the heat of the moment. via MC's male friends
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Make Him Feel Wanted
Don't wait for your partner to always start sex. It's hot for a man to feel wanted and to know that you need it right now. via MC's male friends
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